Top Five Reasons Infertility is Hard

Infertility and Trying to Conceive

Jacqueline Winslow
Are you TTC?

Infertility, it is the one thing that plagues millions of Americans. And yet, trying to conceive (TTC) pushes moms to try just about anything. No matter if it is an old wives' tale, or just some new invention to help fertility, women trying to become pregnant will try just about anything to help in the process.

If I sound like I know something or two about this subject, it would be because I do. Yes, I am not hiding my face, I can admit my own struggles, not for myself, but for all the women that have to dealt with this painful subject of trying to conceive and the infertility that comes with this process.

But in light of this serious subject, here are my own top reasons infertility is hard. And yes, each women or couple who have gone through this can come up with their own, as there are many reasons it is difficult.

Top Five Reasons Infertility is Hard

#5

One of the hardest things that come with infertility is the frustration that usually follows a woman month to month. No, it isn't just a once a month thing. It becomes a lifestyle of trying to conceive.

#4

You have to watch women around you get pregnant, have babies, and you still are left with nothing. Yes, you're happy for them, but there is that little place inside you that aches for a baby.

#3

Did you ever hear someone say, "Just be patient. It will happen it when you least expect it." Only a woman who is TTC can understand the frustration that comes with this statement.

#2

Whether you know why you can't conceive or merely are struggling with the infertility on your own, there are no words to say; it is just difficult. Especially, when you've tried everything you know to try and still nothing. Sometimes, patience can be a pill to digest.

#1

No matter what you try yourself, it all is in the hands of Providence. All you can do is make your body the healthiest you can. Do all the things we've heard so much about: exercise, drink water, take herbs, and watch for ovulation...And Wait! In the end, it is in God's hands of when you will conceive.

Published by Jacqueline Winslow

J. Marie L. is a author of The Bargain. She is also a virtual assistant serving clients all across the country. As a home school mom, her favorite subjects to teach are American history, government, and poli...  View profile

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  • Ashley Young4/12/2010

    Great article. My husband and I currently cannot conceive because of chronic illness and medication.

  • Lorie McCurry8/5/2009

    I understand each of the reasons you've stated as they are all too familiar. I struggled for 11 years to get pregnant. I would do it all over again though because I now have 2 beautiful baby boys, one through IVF, the other through natural conception. I have had the fortunate blessing of finally achieving my dream of becoming a mommy, I know of others who still struggle and my heart goes out to them. Many prayers.

  • Kassidy Emmerson1/29/2009

    I can't relate, but I can understand how emotionally-draining infertility can be.

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