Top Ten Gift Ideas for Someone You Have a Crush on

Here are ten gift ideas for a girl you have a crush on, a girl who you'd like to be your girlfriend, and then your wife. These are things that will impress her, and, in actuality, if you really like her, you might want to get her ALL of them.

10. You want to show that you are sensitive, that you think about the things you do, that you take into consideration other people's feelings, and most importantly hers. A gift that definitely reveals a good degree of sensitivity is a stuffed animal. You don't want a little one, and you don't want it to be too childish, something good-sized and very soft. If she has a favorite animal, then definitely go for that. Otherwise, stick to either a teddy bear or a puppy dog. And you'll want to avoid drastic colors like pink or purple; they can seem too immature. Subtle colors like light brown and light grey are good, or black and white can be okay, if there are other patches on the body or face. The most important thing is how soft it is. Don't be afraid to spend more than you think you should for a stuffed animal. They can be expensive, but the good, expensive ones are usually the softest.

9. You want to show her that you are smart, that you are learned, that you understand things about life, that you are worldly, that you pay attention to things, that you concern yourself with important matters, that you might be able to teach and show her things. A nice, sophisticated watch can achieve that goal. Time is one of the most important things we have, right up there with oxygen, water and gravity. We want to make the most of time; that is a wise idea. In fact, you might want to include with the gift a note that says something like: "To help you make the most of time." That would really speak volumes. She will associate your wisdom, the worldly, sophisticated watch with time well spent, and you, and she will want you to help her spend that time.

8. Another good idea, like the smart theme, is a book. If you get her a book, not just any book but a special book, she will automatically think you are intelligent, sweet, and worthy of her attention. A book says that you're read, that you pay attention to some of the finer things in life, and that you have knowledge. It can be a book you've read and think she'll enjoy and appreciate, a book you know she's been wanting (which also shows that you listen to her), or a book "you just saw and thought of her." In most cases, she will really like the idea of a book, a simple, thoughtful gift that gets her attention, but assumes nothing.

7. You are a man, after all, and she is a woman, and so you should remind her of this fact. You want her to know you possess the qualities of the typical male, the qualities of man that women have come to value, like safety, and security, and strength, and courage, and testosterone. You don't want to overdue it, but something manly would be okay here, like tickets to a sporting event. It is something that is fun, and that you can do together. There will be music, festivities, and testosterone in the air. She will be filled with emotions, and forever after that she will associate those feelings with you, the strength and excitement of a good battle, the fun, the thrills. It's definitely a good gift to get her thinking about you.

6. You also want to show that you are in touch with your feminine side. Girls like that. They want a man who is like their girlfriends, who is funny, who is cute, who they can laugh and joke and be silly and girly with, but who also offers the other things, like strength and security. The combination of those two things will make you irresistible. A good, feminine-side gift is something in the category of beauty. This could be lotions, soaps and shampoos, bubble baths, make up, anything beautifying product. The pinker the better. It should come in a fluffy basket with ribbons and a pink card. Say something like: "For a beautiful afternoon," or "To make you feel pretty (not that you need anything for that)." She will love it, and quite possibly you, too.

5. Girls definitely pay attention to the latest styles. They want a man who keeps up his appearance, who cares, who sets, or at least knows the trends. They want a man of style, who their friends will be jealous of them for. A good way to show that you are "in style" is to get them something from the "in" store. It doesn't have to be a lot, and you don't even have to know the style, just find out which store is in that month, go, and ask one of the girls who works there what would make a good gift. They will ask you questions, like what kind of girl is she, what does she like to wear, what's her size, so try to gather answers to those questions before you go. But whatever you bring back, if you do your research, will surely please her in more ways than one.

4. Most girls want a man who is like their dad, in one way or another. They want to be proud to bring you home. They want to think that their dad will like you. So find out what he's into-football, hunting, wine, golf, chess, woodworking-and then make some deductions based on that. For example, if he likes golf, take her golfing. She will think it's fun, and she will love to report it all back to her dad. If he likes woodworking, by her a nice birdhouse or something to put in her room, something delicately carved. She will automatically appreciate it because she will associate it with her dad, and therefore you with her dad, and therefore she will like you. It's easy math. You want to draw on the power of associations and preconceived notions.

3. Of course, there is always the romantic gift. Most girls love romance. This can be tricky, though, if you aren't on romantic terms with her. Chocolates are subtle enough, but don't get the ones in the heart-shaped box unless you are absolutely sure. A safer bet is a romantic movie, and preface by saying something like: "I really liked this movie," that way she knows you're romantic, and into things like that, and every time she watches it she will think of you. And by the way, make sure you actually watch it so that in case she makes a reference to it, you aren't busted on the spot!

2. The debate goes way back: where do nice guys finish? Last? First? Really, it depends on the girl. But most girls do want a guy who is nice. Is nice the only thing they're looking for? No, not usually. You have to pair nice up with especially funny or undeniably charming; you can get away with not nice and rich or incredibly good-looking, though. Something that always says nice, simply and attractively, is a spa certificate for her and her mom. Don't spend too much, or they might suspect something. Make it simple and modest, no luxuries. It shows you are thoughtful, considerate, and care to make them happy. It doesn't put you in the picture, it just says I want you to feel good; and what nicer thought is there than that?

1. Well, overall, at the end of the day, when it's all said and done, what it really comes down to is money. Women, girls, they like nice things. They want a man with money. Money wins over all. So when in doubt, if you really want her, just spend a lot of money. Buy her something from Tiffany & Co., and she will be yours in no time. The end.