Reason #1: Auld Lang Syne
Chances are, you may have sung the words to this song (or some variation of them) at least a dozen times. Ironically, few people actually know the origin of the song (it's Scottish)---let alone, how to spell it. The bottom line is that as much as "Auld Lang Syne" is a New Year's tradition, hearing it each year has a way of grating on the nerves.
Reason #2: Boredom
Believe it or not, some people find New Year's Eve celebrations (especially those taking place at public venues) to be quite boring. As a matter of fact, many people claim that New Years parties are not much different than other party nights, which can be a let down--especially if the price of admission was exceptionally high. The bottom line is that people who are accustomed to night life anyway, may find NYE parties to be "anticlimactic."
Reason #3: The Crowds
Massive crowds are a huge deterrent for people who are looking to celebrate the ringing in of a New Year. The knowledge that your favorite watering hole will be packed with revelers can be frustrating, especially so if you're merely looking for a simple place to have a New Year's Eve cocktail.
Reason #4: Depression
While the coming of a new year may bring hope and refreshment to many, others become exceptionally depressed. The loss of a loved one in the past year may provoke sad memories. But others become dejected about having failed to meet certain goals during the year.
Reason #5: Being Alone
There are millions of couples who become engaged around the first of the year. But there are millions of others who have either recently broken off a romantic relationship, or have spent a good part of the year without a partner to begin with. In either case, the idea of being alone on NYE can be quite disheartening. And those singles who do choose to brave the NYE crowds in search of fun can sometimes become saddened by observing the happy couples around them.
Reason #6: Everything Is Too Expensive
Plan on having a quiet dinner with your mate on New Year's Eve? Lots of couples do. However, venue owners know that NYE is a prime time to make money. So many restaurants have cover charges for entry, and have raised prices for standard things like meals, cocktails, even parking. Nightclubs often have the luxury of charging even more money. Combine all these incidentals with the cost of taking a cab, and you can easily blow several hundred dollars (or more) for a celebration that ultimately lasts just a few hours.
Reason #7: "It's a Corny Holiday"
While the NYE holiday tends to carry a lot of symbolism, there are several people in the world who simply believe that the celebration of the new year is "silly." The idea of making lots of preparations and spending excessive amounts of money for one party seems impractical, at best. In essence, many simply believe that the beginning of a new year doesn't warrant celebration.
Reason #8: The Crazy Drivers
New Year's Eve is the one holiday that sends tons of police officers into the streets. Big crowds always means more vehicles on the roads. And these crowds offer a sublime environment for crazy drivers. Drunkenness only exacerbates problems with poor drivers and thickened traffic. Scores of people absolutely refuse to go out on NYE for these exact reasons.
Reason #9: The "Countdown"
The Countdown to Midnight, considered the pinnacle of New Year's Eve celebrations, also has a way of causing mild anxiety. It may sound strange. But some people hate NYE simply because they hate the entire countdown process. For some, it's the Midnight Kiss that irritates them; perhaps they have no date, and the idea of kissing a stranger is unacceptable. Others merely hate the pressure having to be "in the right spot" during the countdown to midnight.
Reason #10: The Resolutions
While the majority of the population appears to look forward to bigger and brighter things in the upcoming new year, others feel that making New Year's resolutions is absurd. Selecting just one day of the year to take interest in bettering one's life seems fruitless to some people, especially in light of the fact that few ever admit to actually keeping the resolutions they've made.
Published by Ayanna Guyhto - Featured Contributor in Arts & Entertainment
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7 Comments
Post a Commentmy family does'nt do anything for new years...at least not in the last 20 or so years. i have always been depressed on nye. i have not been to a nye party, i dont' have a g/f, or really any friends.
Because I can't get a date.
...you love if you don't have a significant other? I think the depressing part is the couple where one person loves to celebrate New Year's Eve and the other doesn't. It's almost like explaining why you should get a Valentine's Day gift. If one person thinks it's trivial, you could seriously hurt the other person, and that's when that boil over relationship you talked about in another article happens.
Page 2: There are tons of holidays that bring out police here: July 3rd because of the Taste of Chicago fireworks, every single St. Patrick's Day (Chicago is still an Irish-bred city), and don't even get me started on Black Friday after Thanksgiving. Hell, I see police officers in large numbers all the time here, especially on the southside bothering somebody who's not even doing anything. I think it's cool to celebrate another year of survival and being alive, but I do understand the depression about being single during New Year's Eve and having no one to kiss. The only thing is people don't realize that they can still hug and kiss their FAMILY. It's like everybody forgets about the OTHER people you love during New Year's Eve and Valentine's Day. My boyfriend has to perform on New Year's Eve so I won't be with him, which pisses me off, but I'm going to my grandfather's house to hang out because he is absolutely my favorite man in the world. Why not spend New Year's Eve with the family
Page 1: I love "Auld Lang Syne," especially because it reminds me of "Happy New Year, Charlie Brown," my favorite children's movie. I enjoy being in the center of crowds. I specifically go to the Taste of Chicago on the 3rd when millions of people are there just so I can be in the thick of things. Crowds of people I don't know are my THING. Crowds of people I do know are the ones I hide from. I never get depressed about things I didn't accomplish. I just look forward to doing them in the new year. And I don't club it enough to get bored with New Year's celebrations. I always like to see who is performing or watch fireworks or people watch.
I'd like to add, "The Kissing". Ick, who wants to kiss everyone in the room just because it's midnight? Gross.
Can you do a "10 Reasons Why People Hate Christmas," for us scrooges? 1) Screaming nieces and nephews....lol.