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BDSM Safety: Using Safe WordsHave you ever been in the middle of some hot sex and all of the sudden it goes to far? You tell your partner to stop or say no and they listen (or should at least) and stop. BDSM scenes work much the same way, but in some cases no and stop don't truly mean no or stop. -
BDSM Safety: Hard Limits, Soft LimitsBy definition, a limit is a point at which something terminates. In the BDSM lifestyle, limits are considered hard and soft limits. -
BDSM Safety: Subspace and After CareFor those who are new to the BDSM lifestyle, there are certain aspects of a scene that aren't fully understood until it is too late. One such aspect is subspace, also referred to as subdrop. Subspace is a metaphor for the state of mind for a submissive. -
What is a "Safe Call" in BDSM?In BDSM, a safe call is a backup plan to ensure your safety when you meet with a new partner. It's a simple way to check in with a contact person so that they know you're safe; alternatively, if you do not check in with your contact person, they can call the police for you. -
BDSM 101 - the First Aid Kit - an Essential for Your Toy BagThis article shares what should go into your BDSM first aid kit to ensure safety during play.
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BDSM for Beginners - Bondage BasicsBondage can be one of the most delightful, sensual parts of BDSM, but it can also be one of the most dangerous forms, with improper preparation and technique. Bondage enthusiasts enjoy various types of bondage, often using simple household items. -
Canes & Caning: Introducing Edgeplay Into Your BDSM RelationshipA helpful guide to introducing BDSM Edgeplay into your relationship, and not causing mental or emotional hurt to your partner. Fireplay, Needleplay and other possibly frightening play can be introduced to make it enjoyable for all parties! -
The Lingo and Language of BDSMMaking sense of all the acronyms and code words in BDSM communities can be a very difficult thing.If a handsome man in black leather at a play party asks, "Would you like to do some blood sports with me, my dear?", what exactly did he ask? -
BDSM 101 - What Does Consensual Slavery Mean to Me?This article tells the reader what slavery means to this writer.
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BDSM Techniques - Hot Wax PlayHot Wax Play in BDSM Scenes can be highly erotic and can be highly dangerous, as with any BDSM exploration, safety comes first - ALWAYS. -
BDSM Lifestyle: Building Your Stable One Submissive at a TimeBDSM is a very honor driven alternative Lifestyle which can and will impact all participating. Being a stable Owner holds many responsibilities, here is a list of things to consider.
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Dealing with Disabilities in a BDSM RelationshipHaving a disability does not have to end your BDSM relationship. However, there are certain safety tips you must keep in mind.
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Is BDSM Deviant Sexual Behavior?A discussion of BDSM and the concerns regarding whether or not it is deviant sexual behavior.
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BDSM Red FlagsA guide to the more common indicators of potential abusive partnerships within the BDSM community. -
BDSM: 6 Myths About the LifestyleThis article tells some common myths regarding the BDSM lifestyle
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BDSM - Negotiating Your First SceneA short overview of how a couple of play-partners might go about negotiating their first scene with safety and fun both in mind. This includes such tasks as exchanging medical information, and choosing your venue for the scene. -
Great Books on BDSM - Essential Reading for the New Submissive and DominantThis article will give you a list of books to read and also will discuss the ones you should have on your bookshelf as a responsible BDSM practitioner.
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BDSM Scenes & Electrical Play: Violet Wands, TENS Units and Bug ZappersZap! Zap! Buzzzzzzzz! Does even the idea of erotic electrical play send your heart into racing arrhythmia? It used to scare the hell out of me, too! This article may help you explore Violet Wands, TENS Units and Bug Zappers as erotic tools. -
Surviving Your First BDSM Play PartyEverything you need to know about attending your first BDSM play party. -
BDSM - My First Play PartyA short discussion on how to achieve a successful and pleasant night attending a BDSM "Play Party." Includes common rules, helpful etiquette, and good questions to ask beforehand.
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BDSM - Why Submissives Seem to Be Topping from the Bottom NowadaysThis article discusses the reasons why submissives seem to be in control in modern BDSM and how control has slipped from Dominants.
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BDSM for Beginners - SafewordsBeginning Explorers in the BDSM World hear a lot of advice from more experienced �players'. Unfortunately, a lot of that advice is worth nothing more than it costs…NOTHING. -
BDSM Techniques - Clips, Clamps, and ClothespinsImagine being in the depth of a terrific BDSM scene with your partner. Now, imagine the laundry bag full of clothespins. "What?" You say! A handful of colorful plastic or wooden clothespins...Now, let's talk about safety! -
BDSM Relationships - Adult Erotic Spanking and PaddlingSpanking as erotic stimuli is a very popular piece of the whole BDSM or D/s (Domination and submission) culture. WHY? -
10 Great AC Articles on BDSMFor whatever reason you enjoy BDSM and whatever level of experience you have in it, you will find the following articles to be useful and interesting to read. So here are ten great Associated Content articles on BDSM. -
A BDSM Beginner's Reading ListA starting point for anyone who is new to BDSM or for those who are curious but don't know where to find good, clear information. -
BDSM Gag Safety Tips: Safe, Sane, ConsensualGag safety is imperatively important. That cannot be stated more simply, or soon enough. While BDSM play is a normal and highly exciting erotic activity, safety, like with "normal" sex, is vital.
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BDSM Relationships: The Responsible SubmissiveResponsibility in BDSM is not only something that a dominant has to do or show. It is also important that a submissive takes responsibility for her/ himself.
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4 Safety Tips for the Submissive in a BDSM RelationshipThis article gives 4 ways that a submissive can keep herself safe in her BDSM relationship.
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BDSM - Top Subjects for Presentation at a MunchThis article lists some interesting subjects that could be discussed and presented at BDSM munches. -
BDSM - a Guide to Caging Your Male or Female Submissive for the New DominantThis article will share some aspects of caging that appeals to both dominants and submissives and details what types of cages are available and what they look like.
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BDSM - Top 5 How-To Books for Bondage Beginners and Experienced DominantsThis article will give new and experienced rope players an overview of the books to buy to help them improve their skills.
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BDSM - A Look at the Female Style of DominationThis article shares the style of domination most often found when looking at female dominants and some possible reasons why.
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Great Books for New Dominants in the BDSM SceneThis article will share some of the reading material out there that could help you effectively dominate your submissive partner.
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BDSM - a Guide to Releasing Your Slave or Submissive ResponsiblyThis article shows some of the steps one can take to release a submissive responsibly.
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BDSM - RACK Vs. SSCDefinitions of RACK and SSC, and why one might be preferable to the other.
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BDSM Guide to the First DateThis article will give you some guidance as to whether you should play or not and what to do when you are playing despite all the good advice of veterans.
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BDSM 101: Playing with Gags - the New Dominants' Guide to Safe PlayThis article will share what gags are for and what dangers one should consider when playing with them.
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BDSM - the New Submissive's Guide to Male and Female Dominants to AvoidThis article will give you some dominant types to avoid if you are monogamous and looking for a long term partner.
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BDSM - Using the Fear of Abandonment and Fear of Knives in a Scene with Your SubmissiveThis article will share the some of the risks and the types of play considered to be fear-based. The article demands caution when fear is used as a form of erotic stimulation.
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