Trigger the Brain for a Better Relationship

You must be going to a party, a seminar, an event or maybe to a night club. You may will find in that crowded room right across your eyes make contact with somebody, there is an eye to eye contact. For some time, you may concentrate on each other. Suddenly innumerable thoughts transpire into your mind. It is your brain that influences your behavior and thinking when you ultimately meet each other.

It is described like that: It is dopamine, which is powerful adrenaline that is moderated by an AC, anterior cingulate in your brain which causes you to act in such jolly and concerning ways. For example, let us imagine that you are a very beautiful lady. It is usual for you to capture numerous attractions from men. At a certain point of time, you may altogether get tired of getting same admiring comment each time. This will crop up something in your mind. Since the AC in the mind is not getting aroused the dopamine will not get released and your brain will not get a jerk.

Now, let us suppose, a man just comes to you. He insults your appearance with some bad comments. Your plight will be like a king ticked off. At this moment, your brain acts with a wave of dopamine. The effect of dopamine may direct you to prefer to follow that unmannerly person. This action of yours, clearly explicates why some nice girls usually for some bad boys.

Generally, we expect certain things to happen our way. However, when something does not happen as per our expectation or we get a response we did not anticipate, our AC arouses us. We obstinately become attracted towards someone. We may at times react to people if they do something which we not anticipate them to do. It is our natural mechanism of survival. People will not do what you anticipate. This also provides an explanation to why some people get dragged to say a drama queen simply to get burnt. They affirm of not repeating that when they exit from there. But it happens again and they go to someone different. The brain keeps on asserting AC and feeds the dopamine which makes one hopeful and restless and ultimately it is a type of an addiction.

There may be a stage in life sometimes when something unforeseen may now become as anticipated thing. It is mentioned earlier that one gets 'tired'. The same situation applies to most married couples after some years. They also get bored with each other and may start finding some other partner. This could cause a bad impact on their relationship.

They are missing something to fasten their relationship. What is that which needs to be done? Every body likes some change in the way of life. The best solution is to find out ways and overcome the 'calm'. Both of you need to add some spice to things. You can sit with your partner sometime or sit alone and think over or note down some of the things, which may bring exhilaration into the relationship. Then next thing is to follow these matters.

You may also storm your mate with something not anticipated as a surprise. As an example, that is what some woman did. She maintained sexy dresses in her closet to surprise her partner each time as he could not expect what the next will be. You may take your partner surprisingly for an arousing night out somewhere. The crux of the matter is that the trigger of brain should be activated to make the dopamine of excitement to flow always. One should try to do what is unexpected.