Understanding Borderline Personality Disorder

Melina Ann Collison
You could be living with borderline personality disorder and not even know it. This disorder is often associated with depression and other mental disorders. It is important for someone with the borderline personality disorder to seek the guidance of a medical health professional.

Signs and Symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder
-Suicidal thoughts, attempts, or threats
-Severe mood changes and shifts
-Unhealthy and unstable self image
-Pattern of bad, turbulent, or stormy relationships
-Substance abuse
-Impulsive and dangerous behavior
-Intense anger that comes for no apparent reason
-Not wanting to be alone or without family for long periods
-Fear of being abandoned

Treatment options will be discussed to you by a mental health doctor and could consist of counseling, medication, support groups, and family support. Friends and family play a big role in the recovery process involving borderline personality disorder.

You do not have to feel like your life is running out of control anymore. One minute you are a normal functioning member of society and then the next you can't even walk out the house or talk to another person. Stop the unpredictable mood swings and behavior patterns once and for all. This storm will pass and your doctor can help you.

Maybe your spouse or family member is suffering from borderline personality disorder. Coping with sudden mood and behavior changes can be difficult and sometimes frightening. You need to keep yourself calm and try these simple tips to avoid difficult situations:

1) Praise the other person and try to tone down disagreements, arguments, or confrontations.
2) Keep the daily routines.
3) Let the person talk to you and try to direct the conversation around their feelings. Do not try to say their feelings are wrong. Be a good listener.
4) Signs of improvement do not mean the borderline personality disorder is gone. Continue to offer your support and understanding even when there are no symptoms of the disorder.

If you want more information on borderline personality disorder try visiting the National Alliance on Mental Illness website. You are not alone in being a victim or sufferer of this disease. There are many helpful and safe options available to you and your family for treatment. Medications do not have to be long term and counseling will benefit everyone involved. Borderline personality disorder can break up families and relationships if not properly dealt with or diagnosed. Check with your doctor today to get personalized help for this disorder.

Published by Melina Ann Collison

Melina Ann Collison is a mother and wife who lives in the St. Louis Metropolitan Area. She is a college graduate that has recently started writing professionally.  View profile

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