Use Technology to Have a Healthier, Long-Distance Relationship

Prior to marrying my wife nearly three years ago, I dated her long-distance for nearly two and half years. Six months of that was intercontinental! Obviously our long-distance experience was successful, but it had its ups and downs. Good communication was essential for us to have more high moments than low ones, and I'm grateful that today's technology provided us so many ways to stay in touch.

Use Facebook, MySpace, and other social networks. By updating your profile, you'll provide an easy way for your significant other to keep tabs on what's going on in your life, and you'll feel less out of the loop if they do the same. Leaving notes on each other's profiles, as well comments on photos and other shared items is a great way to touch base throughout the day.

Get a webcam. Video over the web has come a long way in the last few years, and now Web cams are more affordable than ever. Find a decent quality one online for about $30, and then use it with the free Skype video service to make eye contact every once in a while. Of course it's not as good as physically being with the person, but it's a great way to be reminded of those little facial expressions and body movements you miss so much.

Make the most of your cell phone. If your cell phone has the capability, take short video clips of yourself and your friends, and send them to your significant other. Snap some quick photos as well, while you're at it. Photos an videos sent moments after an event help you remain connect across the long distance. Every now and then, send a text message with a random thought or idea you had. Every bit of communication helps.

Don't forget the old classic...e-mail. I don't think you have to write a long, super detailed epistle every single day, however, consider sending your significant other a short message every once and a while with your thoughts and experiences, or just to express your appreciation...the way you might write the occasional note if you lived nearer to the person. Use email to communicate things you don't want the whole world to know from your Facebook or MySpace.

Long distance relationships are always difficult, but with today's technology, you can still stay connected and in touch.