Valentine's Day Survival Guide for Men

Men, hitting a home run with your significant other on Valentine's Day is so easy, I will tell you how to do it. It's the perfect day to be a hero. I know, all the hearts and bright red everything can make us all a bit squeamish, but February 14^th if done right, can be a huge success that pays dividends well beyond this short month. I know, I know, some of you are stumped for the right idea to get into your lady's good graces but don't worry. I have a few simple ideas that will have her melting in the palm of your hand. Remember, you don't have to recreate the wheel. That's the brilliance of this holiday. Women just want to be appreciated and reminded that they are loved. So, don't wait until the last minute and make sure you stick with what's tried and true.

First, let's talk about flowers. This is so simple it kills me to hear stories about men who drop the ball on this. This is a fundamental. Would you show up to play basketball and simply not play defense? No way! So, don't think you can let Valentine's Day roll around without getting flowers. The only thing you need to do is make sure you know what type of roses your girl wants. Why? Because there are some women that don't necessarily want red. Some want pink. Some don't want roses at all. Know your girl, guys. Take the time now to find out what they like. Then, order them in advance! Also, if you are on a limited budget, many of your local grocery stores sell beautiful arrangements at half the cost of your traditional flower shop.

Second, poetry. This is the daunting one. Many of us have no clue how to write a poem, much less under the overwhelming pressure of trying to be romantic. My advice, gentleman, give it a try. It doesn't have to rhyme. Just make sure it expresses how you feel about her. This will be something she will treasure. Here is the twist though, make sure you read it to her. Take your time, making plenty of eye contact, softly and slowly capturing each phrase as you intended it to be understood. It is awkward and maybe a bit overkill but you cannot put a price tag on a memory. If done in private with just the right lighting and atmosphere you will carve out a lasting moment she will replay over and over in her mind for years to come. Trust me; it is worth it, even if the memory becomes more comedic than romantic.

Finally, we can't forget jewelry. A can't miss. Even if you have no clue what she would want, if you have the money, there are plenty of jewelry stores with experienced clerks who would be more than able to steer you in the right direction. Now, if your resources are a bit more limited and you are on a budget, you can still come away a hero. You just need to be a little resourceful. If you pay any attention to your girl at all, she has dropped you hints. If not, take a quick look through her jewelry box noting colors, styles, and relevant sizes. Ask your mother or sister what necklaces or earrings are must have's for daily use. Then find that small trendy boutique that caters to the hard working but savings challenged man. Take your time and choose something that in some way reminds you of her.

Don't let this Valentine's Day pass you by. Plan accordingly. Put a bit of yourself into the process and remember that in the end you are simply expressing to her the very reasons you can't be without her.