Valentine's Post Performance

Now that Valentine's Day has passed us by as quickly as it came, there is more work to do men. Your special lady knows it too. You can help keep that glow in her space for a much longer period of time with a daily renewal of your devotion to her well being. Your token gift or flowers for Valentine's Day is expected. Same goes for her birthday, Easter, Mother's Day and Christmas. But there are 361 other days in the year. That's not to say that you do something special every day, but why not.

Touch her, affectionately, daily. A simple touch keeps you connected. Showing her a little more kindness, on a regular basis goes a long way. The words "good morning" and "how was your day" and other caring inquiries will give her something else to think about.

Send her flowers at her office next Tuesday, because it's Tuesday. Do it again on Thursday three months later. Take an early lunch and deliver the flowers to her yourself or leave them with the receptionist. Better yet, surprise her and take her to lunch. Even if its for twenty or thirty minutes.

Try massaging her feet and scalp. Show her a little more kindness on a regular basis. She may love to read - buy her a $20 Amazon gift card. Give her time to read by fixing your own dinner. On your way to work you probably pass by many places that she may enjoy. On Saturday afternoon, take her there. Just be thoughtful. Have the audacity to show her how much you really love her, and don't expect anything in return.

She deserves your thoughts and your time that is dedicated to her interests. She deserves more than a Valentine.