Virtual Dating - the Pros and the Cons

The internet has become the new way to meet people; whether looking for a casual or long-term relationship. Although dating is dating, virtual dating adds an extra element. There are pros and cons to virtual dating.

Pro - You get to learn a few things about the person before meeting them in person.
Con - The person on the other end of the computer may not be who they say they are.

Pro - Both parties are given a chance to be attracted to the inner beauty and not be blindsided by the person's physical attributes.
Con - A picture or description can be fabricated and what you see when you actually meet might not be who you envisioned.

Pro - You don't have to leave the comfort of your home.
Con - It can be anti-social and you won't be able to see how the other person acts in a social setting.

Pro - There are several online dating sites where you can input data such as your likes and dislikes when it comes to personality traits, physical appearances, financial status, and other attributes. These sites use filtering systems to match you to what may be considered your "perfect" match.

Con - Some people still slip through the cracks and you may still end up meeting someone you're not compatible with.

Overall when it comes to virtual dating safety is important. Although you may chat, instant message, etc. on a daily basis, in reality you still don't know the person. If you decide to meet in person, someone close to you should have all of the other person's information just in case something happens. I would even suggest that not only do you meet in a public place but take a friend along with you (even if the friend sits at another table).

Use the online sites to help you narrow down dating prospects, but still use your judgment when it comes to deciding on who to communicate with beyond the internet. Instead of giving out your home number, give the other person your cell phone number. With a home number, predators can get a lot of your information and it's best to be cautious upfront to avoid what can be hazardous situations later.

Beware: The person on the other end of the computer screen can be whoever they want to be while hiding behind a screen name.

Virtual dating doesn't always mean real! Virtual dating can be fun, but it can't replace face to face interaction.