Waiting Games for a Toddler

I think every mom has been in this situation, their child is fussy and you have to wait. I been waiting at doctors' offices, lines at the grocery store, and dozens of other places where my kid suddenly needs to be loud. Waiting is often the toughest activity a young child has to learn. Helping your little one remain happy when they feel stress can ease some of the tension.

What makes moments like these difficult for the child is the developmental span he or she has grown into. Being in strange places, or seeing crowds of unknown strangers mat startle toddlers. Most times people around you may not understand. But it is up you the parent to calm your child and stay focused at the task at hand.

A few things that have helped in me times like this are being prepared, and being creative. Either always carry a bag of toys around, or learn to shift into momentary readiness. Addressing your child's needs can save time and efforts.

I always learned to keep a colorful vocabulary at my son. Soothing tones in your voice can reinforce good mannerism through your child's behavior. Singing and simply acting a bit silly, instead of getting frustrated or angry can keep it real with a kid. Ask that the child realize he or she can have fun and not be mad or sad. Playing paddy cake and other hand clapping activities are fun.

Bring along a small metal car for a boy or a doll for a girl. I noticed each time I left my house, my son ran to find his favorite toy car to hold onto. Rides in the car or on the bus might seem boring to him without it. This kept him occupied many times while waiting in public as well.

Allowing your child to look through their bag or yours may also keep a steady interest growing. Exploring new things is always interesting for them. Touching and grabbing a wallet or a real set of keys is a big person thing. This will bread confidence and security in the toddler.

One last I can suggest is that toddlers plays drawing. Just a simple crayon, or even a pen and paper can fascinate children. Demonstrating writing their name, or drawing a circle or other shapes may encourage sufficient educational skills. Often times, I notice my son grasps onto doing this in writing on the walls, so a piece of paper is even better for him.