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Stress Relieving Tactics

Dave Ickes
Stress is an everyday occurrence in our daily lives. While some stress is helpful, what would you accomplish if you had no one or nothing pushing you to accomplish it, too much is harmful for your body. We need to find ways to reduce it. As you know, stress can lead to health problems along with mental distress. Stress reduction is an important part of a healthy lifestyle.

Spending more time with family and friends can help reduce your stress. You enjoy being around your family and friends and they are very supportive. You can do this by managing your time more efficiently. Delegate as much work as you can not only at work but also at home. Some of the jobs you do can be done by your partner or your children at home. At work, you have many colleagues. See how many tasks can be given to you coworkers. Manage your commitments and make sure you don't over commit your time. Having too much to do in a short amount of time is very stressful. Break large projects down into smaller more manageable tasks. A large project can weigh on your mind and produce stress. When you break it down into smaller tasks, you can relax because those smaller tasks are easier to complete.

If you keep a journal of stressful events, you can analyze them at a later time. Record your reaction to the event. How did you cope with the event? Over time you can develop healthy coping techniques to deal with situations that arise and produce stress. Analyze the results of the stressful event. Did you overreact? What would have happened if you had not reacted?

A healthy lifestyle is important to help you mange your stress. As with most things in life, you need enough sleep, you need to eat a balanced, healthy meal, and you need a moderate exercise program. Stop smoking if at all possible and control you consumption of alcohol.

How you react to and think about stress can go a long way to helping you. When an event triggers negative thoughts, you experience fear, anxiety, guilt, and insecurity along with a host of other negative emotions. These produce stress. Learn to deal with these negative thoughts. You need to picture in your mind happy thoughts instead of all the negative events that have happened in your life. Be careful of what you see on TV. There is a great amount of negative things on your TV. Be aware of what you read, also. Newspapers get their readership by sensationalizing events so be cautious when reading the paper.

Change your communications style. Develop a way of making your thoughts and ideas known without becoming too confrontational. When you make others feel defensive or hostile, the stress increases on you also.

A daily routine of briefly analyzing your stressful events at the end of the day can go a long way towards helping you develop coping techniques. Think to yourself how you could have handled the situation better. Are too many things to do upsetting you? Think how many tasks you could delegate and how many you can just not do? The quiet at the end of a day is a nice time to reflect and help you lower your stress level.

Published by Dave Ickes

I'm a retired educator who enjoyes researching and writing about the many topics of interest to me.  View profile

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