Warning Signs: She May Be Planning to Leave You

Women don't just get mad and leave. They're methodical. They tediously plan it all. There are a few signs to look for and I'll show you how to identify them.

She Stops Telling You That She Loves You

You tell her that you love her and she replies with, "I know" or "OK". She'll say nearly anything except "I love you too"

When You Go To Kiss Her, She Turns Her Head So You Kiss Her Cheek and Not Her Lips.

My ex wife used to do this. She would turn her head every time that I would go to kiss her lips. I guess she thought of a kiss on the cheek as being less intimate than a peck on the lips. She wouldn't even let me kiss her lips during sex.

She Never Makes Any Long Term Plans Concerning You And Her

This sign is a bit more subtle but watch for it. This is because she figures, "Why make plans? I don't plan on being here much longer anyway".

Sex Is One Hundred Percent Physical On Her End

Your sex life is almost non existent but if the two of you have sex it's "just sex". There is no passionate kissing, no foreplay acts given by her for your pleasure. It's just get in, get off, and get out. She's got an itch that she needs scratched. It's nothing more than that. You feel like you're having sex with a prostitute. There is no cuddling after sex either. She isn't interested in any of that.

She's Spending A Lot Of Alone Time With Her Friends And Close Family.

What do women and some men do when they are troubled? They confide in their family and friends. This is what she's doing. If the times she spends with friends and family have gone significantly up, she may be planning to leave you.

Her Family And Friends Seem Uncomfortable Around You All Of The Sudden.

If she's confiding in her friends and family, they know she is planning to leave you. This will likely make them uncomfortable around you. Pay close attention when you're around these people and look for the signs. You'll know them when you see them.

She's Spending Much More Time On The Computer Or Reading The Classified Ads.

This is because she's looking for an apartment. Check out the history in your Internet browser and check out where she has been going. She may be making plans.

If you see one or more of these behaviors from her, she is likely planning to leave you. If you're interested in saving the relationship, suggest couples or marriage counseling. Make the first move and don't be afraid to do it. Good luck mate.