Ways to Encourage Sexual Abstinence in Teens

Although not often by choice, parents spend more time at the office than they do at home which sometimes leaves teens feeling uncared for and not important, even though that isn't the case.

When teens feel this way they tend to participate in things that will make them feel wanted regardless of how destructive it may be and unfortunately the consequences of their actions are life altering.

One area where teens go astray is pre-marital sex. What was only intended for marriage is now accepted as long as contraceptives are used; this shouldn't be the case. Parents should raise the standard by encouraging a life of abstinence for their teens.

Here are practical ways that can encourage sexual abstinence in teens.

Biblical Truth- Christian families know what God's word says about marriage and because of that they should encourage sexual abstinence to their teens by showing and teaching them through the Bible. This isn't a license to beat them over the head with the truth, it is an opportunity to show teens that God desires each person to remain pure until they are married. Scriptures about marriage can be found in Hebrews 13:4 and in the book of 1 Corinthians.

Activities- Many teens get bored when left to themselves for extended periods of time and when that happens they seek out ways to occupy their time. Instead of waiting until they get bored help them get involved in activities prior to that happening.

During the school year students have school athletic clubs or after school programs and during the summer there are many opportunities for teens at the YMCA or local recreation center. Being involved in activities encourages sexual abstinence in teens by keeping them busy and entertained.

Volunteer- Hands on experience will also encourage sexual abstinence by showing them just how difficult being a caregiver can be. Teens can volunteer at a recreation center that offers classes to toddlers or they can volunteer in a Sunday School Class at church. When teens are exposed to bottle feedings, diaper changes, and crying infants they will see the dedication needed to take care of a baby and hopefully will teach them that abstinence should be a top priority.

Our youth are our future and as parents we should do all that we can while we still have the opportunity to encourage sexual abstinence in our teens. Not only will the threat of teen pregnancy be removed it will also build character and integrity in our teens.