What Does Jesse James Want to Give Wife Sandra Bullock?

So, what is it that Jesse James wants to give to his Oscar-winning wife, Sandra Bullock? He's already issued an apology, but he now enters rehabilitation? For what? He won't say, but he likely intends this as a show of sincere regret for cheating on Sandra Bullock. His vows at the wedding altar were lies; his words at the Oscars were lies, so why wouldn't this nonverbal statement of Jesse James going into rehabilitation also be a lie? Oh, maybe he's going there to rehabilitate his lying. Fat chance, Jesse. Usually, once a liar, always a liar. Now this doesn't mean that a liar can't be rehabilitated. It just means that people generally never again learn to trust a previous liar, even a rehabilitated one. Maybe, you can get some help from rehabilitation, though.

What does this mean for Jesse James's marriage to Sandra Bullock? Nothing other than they will still get a divorce while he attempts to save face. Sandra Bullock doesn't buy the whole idea of I'm so sorry, and I'll prove it by going to rehab bit. Jesse probably gets an ear full every time he talks with Sandra Bullock, and he deserves it. However, no amount of scolding and no amount of apologizing with fix this situation. Even if it could, who wants a fixed marriage? Marriage is like an antique. It holds its highest value in an unbroken state, and the longer the endurance, the greater the value. Sandra Bullock's marriage to Jesse James is now in a broken state, so she's going to kick it to the curb, according to radaronline.com. It now holds only garage sale value, which isn't much.

All this circles back around to the question of what Jesse James wants to give his Oscar-winning wife Sandra Bullock by going to rehabilitation. Does he want to undo the situation so that he can undo her hurt? Impossible. Does he want to remove the blemish that this sex scandal has placed on her reputation? Impossible. Does he want to win back Sandra Bullock? Looks impossible. Does he want to save face for himself? Surely impossible. Does he want to cure his sex addiction? Likely, next to impossible. Does he want to reel in his lying? Probably impossible because his lying helps him cope with his sex addiction. Otherwise, Jesse James would have to admit that he acted like husband scum, which would damage his macho ego.

So, the real question is not what he wants to give Sandra Bullock by going to rehabilitation, but what he can give Sandra Bullock by going to rehabilitation. The short answer to this question is nothing, absolutely nothing. All hope is gone because all trust is gone. Wave goodbye to Sandra Bullock. She's about to leave the marriage.

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radaronline, March 30, 2010, "Exclusive: It's Over! Sandra Bullock Decides to Divorce"