Is it your tender care and the acknowledgement of words that you give to him or her or is it the actions that you may or may not deliver entirely to the relationship? Does she love you for your good looks or your charming personality? Is it the fact that you are a great father to the kids or perhaps a good house cleaner or handy man?
Many questions to ask when faced with this situation and knot really knowing if you can fulfill them or not. We always try to be the best we can be as husbands or a significant other but the fact of the matter is that we are not going to be completely perfect in our spouses eyes just what we are and what we can hopefully become in the future. I have heard my spouse say to me, "Why are you not a handy man, I can really use one!" How do you think that can makes you feel if you have other skills that are not really relevant to fixing things up around the house? I always say, "Call the home warranty plan to fix it", Funny huh, but I have my other skill set reserved for other things.
Though I try to help out as much as I can and if I don't know it I can look online for a fix. But when it really comes down to it, I would rather just leave it to a skilled professional. I hope she still loves me? Wink. Hopefully your spouse will love you for you since that is how your relationship all started in the first place, right? In the beginning she loved you for something. Even though you may have forgotten what it was he or she still found something about you that she loved so don't ever forget that ok?
Love may diminish or get stronger as the years go by. Just take things one step at a time to see it through. If you feel that there is nothing in you that your spouse could possibly love about you, then reconsider how you feel and ask yourself again.
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