What to Expect when Bringing Your Baby Home

If you're about to be a first time parent, this article is for you. Bringing a new person into your life is always exciting, but even more so with a soft, tiny baby. However, the first few weeks may not be what you expect.

What to Expect When Bringing Baby Home #1: Invasion of Space

There will be a number of people showing up at your house to see the new member of your family. You must be firm in telling relatives and friends that you need some time alone with your newborn. They mean well, but you aren't going to be in the mood to entertain the minute you step in the door. Just relax and enjoy these first few days.

What to Expect When Bringing Baby Home #2: Baby Will Cry - A Lot

It can be overwhelming when your child cries uncontrollably. Just remember, the baby is either hungry, tired, or needs to be changed. The process of elimination works well here until you and your newborn know each other better.

What to Expect When Bringing Baby Home #3: Tired Equals Forgetful

This experience gives new meaning to feeling tired. Try to remember the simple things, like showering and changing clothes. Making lists of the small stuff that needs to be done is really helpful.

What to Expect When Bringing Baby Home #4: You'll Need More Diapers

I had read that I'd be changing diapers frequently. But nothing prepares you for the real thing. One of the best gifts I received was a "diaper fund." All of our spare change went into an enormous baby bottle so we could save for diapers. It was an expense I hadn't accounted for.

What to Expect When Bringing Baby Home #5: "Why Haven't You Called Me Back?"

Friends without children can't possibly know what you're going through. You'll be in a daze the first few weeks, and won't realize how much time has gone by. When you feel up to it, call everyone and reconnect. Trust me, they'll understand one day.

What to Expect When Bringing Baby Home #6: The House Will Be a Mess

Unless you are lucky enough to have someone helping you out the first week, clothes and dishes may not get washed. This is especially true for women who have had C-Sections. Moving around a lot will slow your recovery.

What to Expect When Bringing Baby Home #7: Baby's Sleep Pattern

Your newborn will wake up every 2 - 3 hours (if breastfeeding). Maybe you'll get an extra hour or two if bottle feeding. Need I say more?

What to Expect When Bringing Baby Home #8: Unwanted Advice

You've experienced this since announcing your pregnancy. It gets worse after the baby is born.

What to Expect When Bringing Baby Home #9: Too Many Outfits

You'll soon learn there is no need to dress your newborn up like they're in a beauty pageant every day. A diaper, maybe even a onsie, will suffice.

What to Expect When Bringing Baby Home #10: Pure Bliss

It's not all bad. Even through all the madness, it's the best high you'll ever have.