What You Girls Must Know About a Date

What was his last relationship like?
Asking about what probably is a painful issue will let you see how he deals with uncomfortable situations first of and lets you know how the relationship ended. If hes open to talk about it that shows he is at least mature enough to talk about his failures. Being able to point out some of his exes good qualities aswell as her bad ones shows he is understanding.

How is his money?
Because a relationship is an investment you should know what you're getting into, if your man has bad debt is he always going to be strapped for cash or even worse asking you for money? Keep in mind debt isn't always a bad thing, it depends what he spent the money on. A man with a student debt and a degree on the way is a man with a future but if his bank account suffering because of the latest plasma tv or a new sound system watch out, he may not control what he spends his money on. If he has splurged out once or twice on some stupid things don't be too discouraged just check and see if he has any plans of cutting back to pay off his debts.

Hows his job?
His career sense can reveal if you are compatible or likely to clash. Similar dreams will end up in similar lives. If he wants to quit work and travel for a year and you want to full time work you're not going to get on. If hes unhappy with his job but is still staying maybe he doesnt know what he wants out of life.