What If?

We Sometimes Can't Help but Wonder

David A. Reinstein, LCSW

What if I had
Been born in Somalia
Or with Cerebral Palsy?
What if my parents had
Stayed together,
Been wealthy
Or were dolphins?
I may wonder forever
But am destined
To never know
What if.

What if circles had corners
And bubbles never burst
Or if there were plentiful water
And no one knew thirst?
What if newborns
Were sentient
And elders respected?
That's a lot of what-ifs
On which we've reflected.

What if people with smaller egos
Became politicians,
Academicians
Or captains
Of industry?
What if
Fabric never would crease
Or if the human
Population
Ceased to increase?
In two monosyllabic
Words
A plethora of unanswerables
Is strikingly
Absurd.

What if
The Golden Rule prevailed
And warfare was no more?
Love, hugs and smiles
Replaced righteously
pilled gore
And we would n'er need
To worry
About what was in store;
Thoughts of wonder
That the reality of life
More often than not
Shreds asunder.

What if everything
We believed
Turned out to
Be a lie?
Laughter would not repair
The damage
And neither would
An infant's cry.
We would go to our graves
Wondering why
What we thought it was
Was not what it is.

What it is
Is what it is,
Lest one decides to change it.
What if a try
Could alter
Earth, sea or sky?
How many among us
Would be willing
To work hard enough
And assume the
Risks involved
To arrange it?

To answer a What If
Is akin to deciphering
A hieroglyph;
From behind life's
Unintentionally
But inevitably
Draped curtain
It is never really possible
To be certain.

Published by David A. Reinstein, LCSW - Featured Contributor in Technology

Clinical Social Worker, psychotherapist, born in Boston and a relatively unscathed survivor of the 60 s. Fan of technology, guitars, creating music and poetry. Mental wellness coach, staff trainer and parent...  View profile

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  • Beverly Nevin8/5/2011

    Just excellent!

  • Darren Koobs8/4/2011

    You're speaking volumes in these few verses. At least it feels like a lot is being implied with the imagery. I really enjoyed this. I've been trying to stop asking "what if" anymore because it too often leads to regret over things I can do nothing about

  • Mike Powers8/4/2011

    Another superb and thought-provoking poem. Thanks!

  • TRESA PATTERSON8/4/2011

    as one who lives in one of your first "What If's," I say instead to resolve "Why not?" and get moving!

  • Rita Oakleaf8/4/2011

    What if there were never any computers and we never got to read each others' work so easily?That would be a shame. Interesting thoughts. I often wonder about different choices I've made and how my life might be different if just one thing had been different, like if I had chosen another college, would I still have found my husband? Probably not. I would probably have a different job, house, signigicant other (or not), etc. But you're right...we never get to know for sure.

  • Betty Alexander8/4/2011

    Being a Virgo and a worry wart, I always thought of "what ifs" as a bad thing. What ifs bring scary thoughts to mind and I try to shut it off. But some of your what ifs are beautiful things. Maybe I should try thinking that instead.

  • Michele Starkey8/4/2011

    What if we never asked, "What if?" Imagine that. cheers

  • Orchiolum8/3/2011

    What if electricity had never been discovered?

  • Han Van Meegerin8/3/2011

    Very profound

  • Lodie Quezada8/3/2011

    :)

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