What Should You Do If Your Boyfriend Wants a Threesome?

What would you do if your boyfriend asked you one night: "would you like to have a threesome?" Sometimes this is just a way to bring another woman into the bedroom. But, it could be that your boyfriend also has a male friend that he'd like to include into your lovemaking. Sure it sounds wonderful, but how will this third person in bed affect your relationship?

There are hundreds of opinions about the ever popular threesome. Some couples state that it saved their failing relationship, while other relationships have been ruined from just one night of passion. So, before everyone jumps into bed, stop and consider a few things before you venture into uncharted territory.

Evaluate your relationship.

What's the state of your relationship to your partner? This is the most important question that should be answered before you enter into any threesome. Is your relationship becoming serious, or are you both just passing time with each other?

Is the foundation of your relationship built on trust, and also stable? Adding another sexual partner to any relationship opens up hundreds of possibilities and potential outcomes which are never expected. Always make sure that your relationship is stable and not lacking in the bedroom before another person is added.

What's expected from a threesome?

Does a threesome sound like something you might be interested in, or is your partner desperately trying to talk you into something you're unsure of? If this is the case you might want to reconsider the idea. It could be that your partner is just trying to spice up a bad relationship.

Talk with each other and discuss what's expected to be gained from this threesome, and also what can be lost from this sexual encounter. In any sexual relationship, trust is the key factor which bonds the relationship. Can all partners in the threesome be completely trusted, or are you getting bad vibes from this situation already? Let your head and your heart decide this one.

Threesome stipulations

Discuss all of the emotional situations that can happen in a threesome situation. Is jealousy a factor for any of the partners, or are all partners open with their bodies as well as their minds? Always discuss which type of protection that should be used to protect from any STD's.

Are certain sexual practices "off limits" to the third party, or are they equally privy to all of the sexual acts performed? All of these questions must be answered before everyone jumps into bed.

All three people involved should discuss what their expectations are for a threesome situation. Is everyone on the same sexual page, or are their certain situations that one person involved might be uncomfortable with?

What are the possible outcomes of a threesome?

A relationship with friends is one thing, but when sexual emotions enter the picture everything changes. This is the point when things can become quite sticky. If all of the partners are equally trustworthy and open with their opinions, then a threesome just might be your cup of tea.

Always be aware of the many unforeseen possibilities that can damage your relationship. What you deicide, will determine the future outcome for you and your partner.