What is Love?

As most people who live and have ever lived, I've been in love. More than one time. Sometimes it seemed that the person I thought I liked turned out to be another person than the one I feel in love with.. The person/people ended up breaking my heart and left me alone when I needed someone more than ever. Now my love slowly turned to hatred.. This unsuccessful love ruined some weeks of my live afterwards. What can you learn from that? Don't ever rush, matters of love!

(And I mean never ever!)

Love hurts. If you get together with the wrong person, you would usually try to make it work. This can be slow and painful and would in most cases end up with a break up.. Trying to love someone who do not love you is one of the most painful emotions you may ever run into. It seems like there's no other thing to do than keep trying, hoping for the best. In most cases this only makes it worse..

I've also had my relationships with no regrets. Like the one Im in now. We were actually together 2 years ago, but broke up. I had a break and we got together again, and I've never been happier for a girl before. She really makes my day. Every day with her feels like the first. She's really special and proves that has actually been worth trying to find love, because when you finally find someone who 'fits' your taste, you're going to have a great time together! I could go on for a long long time about this girl. Proves how happy she makes, how much she stuck on my mind. Im sure some of you know what Im talking about. So people, it's worth going for. Don't ever give up.. Love is there, somewhere. You just got to find it!

(it's not going to take a day/week/month btw..)

I wouldn't be able to live a life without love. Sometimes, it seems like love is only there to hurt you.. Making you feel oh so good about a person, but in the end you get hurt.. really hurt and it seemed like such a waste of time.. maybe you even end up thinking that love makes you blind? That this person isn't who you though and you can do better.. But, as said above, when it comes to an end, and you finally find someone who acts like you want and do/say what pleases you, it has been worth the bother!

BUT! It seems that the love in the world as it is today lasts less time and is taken less serious than in the past? Why you may ask.. Facts dear readers.. about 30-40% of the couples nowadays end up with a divorce.. Kind of sad.. More and more people don't believe in real 'love', saying such thing never existed.. To be honest, I don't believe in that.. Love exists.. If you don't want to believe in it, you wont find it..

(If you don't believe me, have a look on the internet)

Conclusion:

I believe that love is great. Love is beautiful and most likely, inevitable. But be careful who you get a crush on. This person holds your heart and can either choose to warm it or stab it. Don't rush, take your time, I promise you it's going to be worth it! The wonderful emotions you get when you find your love beats the pain you get from a breakup with a knockout! Hah. Don't be scared, go for it.

Love = Lovely (ironic?), but may hurt!