What is Your Love Language? Allow Dr. Gary Chapman to Help You Find Out

Somehow really knowing what our heart is saying is so hard to put into words. There is a way to know what your love language is. Ever feel like your spouse or significant other just can't quite "get it right". They are always missing the mark when it comes to wooing you. Keep reading and surely you will see how knowing their love language will surely help your relationship.

New York Best Selling Author Dr. Gary Chapman has written a book on the five love languages. There are five things that could potentially be the answer to those questions you may have about your sweetheart.

While this is not an article promoting his book, however, by clicking the link below, you can go to his website to learn more about Dr. Gary Chapman. Although not married, I took the assessment and imagined that I was and what would suite me and pull on my heart strings. Needless to say, I was pretty much right on.

The test is 30 questions long and you are asked to be calm and have a clear mind while taking the love language assessment. Once you have completed the assessment, you will be directed to a page with your results. It's simple, fun and may be what your honey wants to know. Don't keep your love language a secret from them. Let them know what they can do to pull your heart strings where you can fall in love over and over again.

What I found for myself: I pretty much knew that affection and sincerity would be on my top list. What I found is that these are really broad qualities and I never realized it. I could never put it into words. After taking this assessment, I realized what I have wanted to know all along and have a better understanding of how to put it in words.

I scored the highest with Words of Affirmation. In other words, encouragement and acknowledging words can really make my heart smile. I scored an 8 with Words of Affirmation. Then there was a tie with Service and Touch. Nothing in this world will touch my heart of hearts like someone loving others. I would rather see my husband or significant other buy a child in need a new coat then buy me a dozen roses. I can explain it, but I know it will and taking this Love Language Assessment has helped me.

I love to be held by my husband. There is nothing more passionate or comforting then to be held in the arms of the one I love. To feel safe and loved will pull my heart strings. To have him grab my hand and walk with me is another way. It's simple, really.

Spending quality time is the next one. Sure I love to have his attention and spending time alone, but it never will be more important than compassion and touch or words of affirmation. I only scored a 5 with this.

The last of love language types are Receiving Gifts. To me, they are nice but they don't touch my heart like these other things do. Another secret to my love language is loving the things that I love. Helping others and showing compassion to people is definitely just that. In fact I don't see myself marrying even the sweetest of men, if he cannot truly love others. So what is your love language? Be sure to take the Love Language Assessment.