Forgive
Ha! I bet you didn't think I was going to say that. But yes, the best thing to do when you find your husband or mate does not have the money you would like him to have is to forgive him. You must forgive him everyday. That's the only way you'll see improvement in how you feel about his money situation.
In the Bible, Jesus said that we should forgive a man seventy times seven in a day. That means you should forgive your man every time he makes a mistake paying the bills, and each time he forgets to asks you out to dinner. Forgiveness has to happen every single time.
Start a business or bring money into the family with your hands
Sometimes, you have to throw tradition out of the window when it comes to helping your family out. So start to crochet. Become a freelance writer. Or work from home in some other capacity. Proverbs 31:13 says a virtuous woman works willingly with her hands. So that means if you want to be virtuous, you have to get to work.
Work with your man not against him.
Try your very best to silence your tongue and your attitude. A man doesn't want to come home to a finger pointing, head shaking wife. If the lights get turned off, sit with your man in the dark and let him know that you're there for him through the good and the bad.
Forget the money and remember the person
Money fades and so does beauty. In order to save a relationship that might be fragile because of money woes, it's important to just forget about the money and remember the person you married. Then, the two of you will be able to take back your happiness and come into a prosperity that doesn't have to be based on money.
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