What Men Do Not Know About Women

Julia Jean
Men don't really know women. Is that a surprise? No...because even a man will admit it. Maybe the question should be is do they really care enough to know about women?

God made women for men. I believe that. Women are complicated. There are many types of women just as there are many types of men. I remember in high school in sex education the guys snickering when the teacher would talk about menstruation. Or show a drawing type picture of the woman's uterus and ovaries etc. Men know what they want to do as far as sex goes but that is about it.

Some women are drama queens. Some think they are the queen. But it all comes down to what we are made of and what we go through. Men don't have their periods. Men aren't the ones who get pregnant and carry a child for 9 months. Men are not the ones having the pain of child birth. Men are not the ones who go through menopause and have hot flashes and menopausal weight gain.

Isn't it so obvious that a man with money hangs on to the young women in their 20s and 30s? Once they start changing, as the aging process begins then they dump that one for a younger one? I won't even mention the men who I am talking about. Men have a lot to learn about women.

We like to talk. Most of us do anyways. We like to feel beautiful even as we begin to age. We like to feel loved and liked for who we are not what we look like. We love to make our man happy. Things they take for granted. Such as, cooking, cleaning, laundry, child care, working outside the home as well. Men have so much to learn about a woman. There are lots of men who care and try and please their "woman". But they really just don't understand them. Maybe, some of us don't understand ourselves either. Our hormones run all over the place. One minute we are laughing. The next minute we are crying over nothing. I have been known to cry over commercials.

Men are not as complex as women. That is for sure. Men, please be patient with us. Try to understand us the best you can. We don't want to get old and wrinkly. Thank goodness for plastic surgeons if you want to take it that far. For those of us women who exercise to keep fit and watch what we eat is not always so easy. We never will look as good as when we were in our 20s, 30s and 40s. But it is what is in the inside that counts. We can still be attractive at 50 and 60 and up. What it all comes down to is our inner beauty. Nothing is more beautiful than a sweet, kind lady like woman.

Published by Julia Jean

I retired from Pacific Bell/ATT in 2002. I am a native of southern California. I am married. I have 2 children and I have 3 grandchildren. I love to write short stories and poems.  View profile

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