What Rights Does a Muslim Woman Have for Traveling and Leaving Her Home?

Based on Shafi Islamic Jurisprudence

aishaladon
Being a woman who loves culture and has a great interest in travel, and being Muslim as well, I am concerned as well as obligated to obtain knowledge required for a woman who travels. Unfortunately there are times when I want to go somewhere or experience something and my husband is not available to accompany me.

Yes I live in America, and woman has a right to do what she pleases, when she pleases, but it is also a common courtesy to make sure that one's spouse is comfortable with the activities of his or her significant other, male or female.

A friend's husband relayed a message to me and asked, "Do you ask your husband permission to go somewhere, or do you just tell him?" "I just tell him," I replied. Yes in Islam a husband has certain rights over his wife, but preventing her from going about to take care of her needs, and even her wants is not a right that he has. There is no evidence of a woman's need for permission to travel based on Quran, Sunnah, or Islamic Jurisprudence that I am aware of.

Concerned if I was going about things the wrong way, as well as having the intention to bring to attention to Muslim men and women about the rights a woman has to travel with or without permission I learned the following:

A MUSLIM WOMAN IS ALLOWED TO TRAVEL AND LEAVE HER HOME TO TEND TO HER NEEDS WITHOUT PERMISSION FROM HER HUSBAND

According to Islamic Jurisprudence or fiqh among Shafi scholars the rights and responsibilities of a Marriage in Islam can be obtained in the Reliance of the Traveler in Book M. It discusses topics such as Who Should Marry, Engagement and Looking at the Opposite Sex, The Integrals of Marriage Agreement etc. It was actually difficult to find any laws or regulations about a woman's freedom to travel. What I did find was a very brief mention about, Permitting the Wife to leave the house, under section M10. Relations between a Husband and Wives.

It states that is obligatory for husband and wife to treat each other well based on the verses in Quran where Allah (swt) states, "Women deserve the like of what they are obliged to give, in kindness." 2:228 It does not state that men are superior to men, and that it is permissible to treat a woman poorly and that she in return is to treat her husband as a king, but rather they are to treat one another EQUALLY in kindness. M10.1

Under the section in reference to permitting the wife to leave the home it states the following, "A husband may permit his wife to leave the house for a lesson in Sacred Law, for invocation of Allah (dhikr), to see her female friends, or to go to ANY PLACE IN THE TOWN." However it does continue to state that, "A woman may not leave the city without her husband or a member of her unmarriageable kin accompanying her, unless the journey if obligatory upon her, like Hajj.

So based on my understanding, it still did not say that a woman needs her permission to go out and take care of her needs, or to travel, only that if it is out of the city she must be accompanied by a male in her family, whom she is related to and cannot marry , I assume for protection. It does not state that she NEEDS his permission. Now to have a spouse's permission or inquire about concern seems to be a courtesy. As long as a Muslim women is doing what she is obligated to do in the eyes of Allah,(swt) I would assume that her travel is permissible. However there are different opinions. I have heard men as well as women state that women need their husbands or fathers permission to travel. I just do not see were this has been validated.

WHAT PROOF PEOPLE USE TO SAY A MUSLIM WOMAN NEEDS PERMISSION FROM HER HUSBAND TO TRAVEL OR LEAVE HER HOME

The validation in which they use is based on a Hadith were the prophet ( pbuh) stated, " It is not permissible for a woman who believes in Allah and the Last Day to allow someone into her husband's home if he is opposed." I don't understand what one thing has to do with the other. What does this have to do with her going out and or traveling?

I have also been told by various people, that a husband has the right to forbid his wife from working. This is Ludacris, where do they obtain this information? I can see if the wife chooses to take a job that may place her in a position where she will not be able to guard her modesty, or even work too close with men. The majority of marital affairs take place with one that a person works with. But there is nothing that states this. There may be an instance where a wife income may assist in maintaining a household because the husband cannot, and this is obligation, his duty. And a man that does not do so, is falling into sin, and his wife has every right to divorce for this simple reason.

A WOMANS RIGHT TO LEAVE HER HOME BASED ON HANAIF FIQH RULINGS

Continuing my reading, The Reliance of the traveler continues to state that amongst the Hanafi Scholars of Islamic Jurisprudence that the opinion is that she may travel unaccompanied even beyond the city limits, unless the distance to her intended destination exceeds 77KM/48 Miles. In this day and age that's not very far, however during the time of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) when there weren't any; travel of such distance could take days.

Other than these simple rules, I have yet to find evidence that states a Muslim woman is required to have her husband's permission to leave the home. Now I am of the personal opinion that if a husband and or wife requested or suggests that the other does not travel to a place or attend an event for a reason based on his or her concern of safety and or risk of sin, or bad company okay. But even that is not stipulated anywhere in Islamic Law.

Islam is a fair and balanced religion. Allah (swt) is a fair God, who does not treat women unfairly nor place men above them in areas of spirituality nor rights. Men and women are equal in the eyes of God as his creation, he has given us each rights that he has not given to the other, has also given each of us responsibilities that he has not given the other. He is the best knower, the just.

Sources:

Reliance of the Traveler By Nuh Mim Keller, Book M

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  • aishaladon1/21/2012

    Lastly,
    Read these form bottom to top. They are posting opposite. :)

    Many women have issues covering their hair. Its a display of their beauty. However I want to remind you as I used to be Christian and was raised Christian. The bible also teaches women to cover their hair. People just dont obey all the laws any more like they used to. You will never find pictures of Mary without her hair covered. Modest and Pious women are always displayed with their hair covered. it is a symbol of their piety and devotion to god and inner beauty rather than mankind and its displays of outer beauty.

    "For if the woman is not covered, let her also be shorn: but if it is a shame for a woman to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered." 1 Corinthians 11:6

  • aishaladon1/21/2012

    Having a wife that does not cover is only an issue for specific men. There are many Muslim women that dont cover. Its up to the man and his preferences. Many men hope that their Christian wives will convert, but it does not matter to many.

    An issue with family holidays may come up. Muslims dont celebrate Christmas or Easter based on their pagan origins. We love Jesus, but dont believe he is God in the flesh, etc. Any holiday that is not about God himself will not be okay. Like Holloween etc. If these are important holidays for you, issues may arise.

  • aishaladon1/21/2012

    Good evening Laia,

    Sorry it took so ling for me to respond. I did not need to do too much research. I am an American Muslim convert myself. Muslim men are not required to marry Muslim women, and many choose not to. I dont see there being any serious problems as well as you have open communication, like any other relationship.

    My son actually may soon marry a christian girl. I would say the most important thing is that you are open to learning about Islam and its beliefs and that you respect it. Most men want their children to be raised Muslim, therefore you will need to learn as much as you can to teach your children.

    Unfortunately, there are a lot of Muslim men that dont practice their faith properly. They drink, smoke, etc. Muslim men are not to drink, smoke, or date for that matter. If you can learn to respect his values you will have no problems that would come with any other relationship.

  • Laia1/20/2012

    Hi there, it seems after your research you have a lot of knowledge regarding muslim marriage and I would like to ask for your advise. I am christian and seriously thinking on getting married to a muslim man. Do you think religion can be a problem for us to be happy? I mean... I am spaniard and have a different way of interaction with people, dress code... I just don't want him to feel ashamed coz his wife does not cover or... is it that BIG issue? I have no problem in not eating pork, not drinking or not wearing short clothes. I am respectful with his religion and like it on most of the points. Just don't feel ok by covering my hair coz I understand prohibitions never end up in a good place. You should understand the rules you decide to accept in your life or they will convert you as its prisoner. Thanks.

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