What Women Don't Want in Bed

We can learn a lot about how to improve our sex lives with our girlfriends or wives by learning about what they don't like and what they don't want. I've done some research to find out what things women most often complain about when it comes to their men in the sack.

The Following Are 7 Of The Biggest Problems That Women Have With Their Lovers:

#1 My Man Won't Discuss Sex With Me

A lot of men find it very difficult to talk about sex with their girlfriends or wives. But you can't really improve your sex life without some communication. And it's very important how you communicate. You shouldn't be using the "F" word for example to talk about intercourse unless your girlfriend or wife uses that word herself to describe it. A good way to start a discussion about sex with your girl is to start off by talking about something you like about your sex life (hopefully there is something to say here!) such as "I like it when you ..."

#2 My Man Takes Everything I Say About Our Sex Lives As Criticism

When your girlfriend or wife asks you to do something new this shouldn't be taken as a criticism of what you are doing now. You can't be expected to know exactly how to please your woman. You are not a mind reader and women are more complicated than men in how they are pleased sexually. A very important point is that each woman is different. Something that might have driven your last girlfriend crazy might not do anything for your current girlfriend for example. The point is your sex life isn't going to improve if you take constructive input as a negative critique. This of course goes both ways! You can show her by example that you are willing to take her suggestions and then of course you can expect the same in return!

#3 My Man Doesn't Have Good Hygiene

Now this one should be obvious. Come on man, take a shower! Brush your teeth! It's common when we are in relationships for a long time to start getting a little lazy. But if you want the passion to continue and last in your relationship sexually then you really need to continue to take care of yourself. Would you go on a first date looking like a slob and smelling worse? No, I don't think so. Similarly there's no reason to expect your wife or girlfriend of many years to be turned on when you don't take the care to keep yourself clean.

#4 My Man Doesn't Talk Enough During Sex

Men have a habit of staying quiet during sex. Women would usually prefer it if you were to talk to them during sex and during foreplay especially. Tell her how beautiful she looks. Compliment her on everything she does. Women can be very insecure and this can inhibit their sexuality. Compliments will go a long way towards wooing your woman and getting her more excited in bed!

#5 My Man Doesn't Make Enough Noise When He Finishes (Climaxes)

Your woman really wants to know that you are enjoying yourself especially in that final moment. I think this goes back to #4 a bit. They want to feel that you are really enjoying yourself and that you enjoy being with them. This is reassuring. For some reason men seem to have a habit of wanting to be quiet during sex, like they will feel ridiculous if they make a lot of noise. There's no reason to feel this way. If you loosen up it will help lead to a better experience for both of you.

#6 My Man Doesn't Snuggle With Me After Sex

I understand. We're not always in the mood to snuggle after sex but even when we're not we should make an effort. This means a lot to a woman. It's strange that men and women seem to have such different feelings after sex. Men usually just feel very relaxed and sleepy and probably just want to roll over and go to sleep most of the time, this isn't anything negative towards our partners, it's just a natural post sex physical feeling. On the other hand Women want to feel very close to you after sex. They want to be held and snuggled. They want to know that it's not just sex to you but making love too. Making the effort to make sure they know you care about them after sex will certainly lead to a better sex life!

#7 Not Enough Foreplay

This is the most important one and that's why I saved it for last! Women aren't as immediately aroused as men are. It's just not how their bodies work. You have to take the time to get them excited. And this doesn't have to be and really shouldn't be just physical. You can start off by talking sexually to her, get her in the mood before you even start to touch her. You can't just grab her breasts a couple of times and expect her to be ready to go!

In Conclusion

Learn from these seven things your woman doesn't like in bed and do the opposite and soon your sex life will become a lot more interesting and exciting!