When Should You Get Your Child a Cellphone?

Bill Hanks
When is it the best time to get your child a cellphone? This is a question that many parents ponder, before making a decision. This article will provide some suggestions to help the parent make the decision.

Age; Age doesn't have anything to do with making the decision to purchase your child a cellphone.

Reasons; As a parent, ask yourself this question. Why do I want my child to have a cellphone? Usually, there is a specific need. If a parent or grandparent needs to maintain contact with the child for various reasons, it might be time to buy them one. Many times, the reason outweighs the logical consideration. It is a decision that a parent should take seriously.

Maturity; When a child is ready to use a cellphone, they will exhibit maturity in handling one in a responsible manner. A child should know what limitations are imposed by their parents. There needs to be limits on minutes, texting and times when to use the cellphone. A parent should follow up on how the child is using the cellphone.

School Expectations; Many schools will not allow cellphones into their building. Some will collect them at the door. Private schools might even teach children how to properly use them. Every school is different. Parents should know what schools expect, when it comes to cellphones.

Expenses; It is a good idea to start a child on a very inexpensive phone. An old used phone is a good idea. Children lose things. Lost cellphones are very common for adults. So one would think that it would be higher for children. A Go phone has very little aps on it. You can have the minutes set on it for your child. This can save on a parents budget. A parent can budget money on the phone as well as time.

Basics; A child first beginning cellphone use needs to be taught the basics. They should be able to identify special numbers. They also need to know how to properly contact a parent, guardian or grandparent. This means practice. A child has to be able to use their finger tips to dial a number properly. It is a responsibility that parents need to pass on to their children.

Cellphone use by a child is inevitable. The parent is still responsible for properly teaching their child how to use it. In the long run, a cellphone can be very useful for a child. A child can learn responsibility, which could apply to other areas of their life.

Published by Bill Hanks

Just an average Joe living in the Midwest. I am a retired High School teacher/coach. I work part time for a small college. I am president of our local Kiwanis club. I am also a city alderman. But, most of...  View profile

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  • Vj McMullan3/18/2012

    I like your points; I don't know though how though people can afford cell phones and the rest. Trac phones i know are relatively cheap, though still adds up.

  • Jack Wellman11/26/2011

    Great points Bill. I think your so right about age not making a difference. For my daughter of 14, she needs one because she is in band, goes to school dances, is in Scholar Bowls, and she has needed something from home, a ride home, etc. Nicely done friend.

  • Vonda J. Sines11/18/2011

    Just this week read an article about a woman essentially using an iPhone as a babysitter for her three-year-old. She claimed to "monitor" the time the kidlet spent on it every day.

  • Agnes Farside11/18/2011

    Good points.

  • Rae Lynne Morvay11/17/2011

    I got my daughter one and I am getting my son one for my piece of mind.

  • Theresa Leschmann11/17/2011

    Thanks!

  • Shelly Barclay11/16/2011

    All really good points. There are children in large families who have events that have to go to on a near daily basis. It is great for them to be able to call parents if something gets out early or late so the whole family can coordinate.

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