When You Have a Clear Perceptive View of a Subject or a Person;you Deem to Have an Understanding of the Subject or the Person

Watching a Game and Playing a Game is Not the Same Thing

Afzal Hussain
UNDERSTANDING VS. MISUNDERSTANDING
When you have a clear perceptive view of a subject or a person; you deem to have an understanding of the subject or the person .When you mistake things for your own views without opening your issues; you deem to have a misunderstanding of a situation or a person .

When you feel on your own that something is being said without ever asking for clarification of the statement made by the person who has said the thing you are actually running into a delusion . When you know that the thing said is directed towards you and you accept the proposal or make a clear dealing then it is understanding . It is called Memo of Understanding in laymen's language .

Memo of Understanding is given the shape of a contract and an agreement once it is written with clarity and cohesiveness of purpose it becomes a contract and a promise to be fulfilled . Anything which is not proposed and accepted in clear terms it is not an understanding and when there is no understanding; there is no promise ,and where there in no promise there is no grievance worth attention morally or legally leave alone emotionally .

Watching a game and playing a game is not the same thing . Players who play they win or loose but the spectators can't demand a share of the trophy . Sometimes misunderstanding of a situation crops up when you think that what is taking place is taking place for you and you never enter the situation with any positive response and then when a situation turns fluid you can't blame the situation . Blame your self for misunderstand when you are not clear in your thought and desire . Misunderstanding is the root of many problems .

Published by Afzal Hussain

I was born in a remote village of India and educated in an Enlish medium school run by Catholic missioneries . I grew up in a small family with a flair for secular mixing . I love English language and litera...  View profile

  • Anything which is not proposed and accepted in clear terms it is not an understanding
  • Blame yourself for misunderstanding when you are not clear in your thought and desire
  • Misunderstanding is the root of many problems.

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  • Afzal Hussain11/23/2006

    You are right and I agree with you . Thanks for reading my post here .

  • Sunny11/23/2006

    How very true. One should take the time to get to know a person or a situation before making their own assumptions.

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