When it Comes to Cheating There Are Some People Who Are Off-Limits

Antoinette McGowan
When it comes to cheating on your partner it is wrong no matter how you dress it up. But when it comes to cheating there are some people that are off limits. What I mean is they are the worst of the worst. By cheating on your partner with one of these people you can damage not only your relationship but the relationship that they have with this person.

Your partner's mother/father are off limits when it comes to cheating. While cheating with anyone is wrong, cheating on your partner with his or her mother/father is irreprehensible. To destroy the relationship that your partner has with their parent is beyond cruel and should never be done no matter how much you want to. This is one are where you really should show some self control.

Your partner's brother/sister also falls into the off limits category. While some guys may find it to be a real ego boaster to be sleeping with sisters, this is an are where a male should try to control that part of their brains where it says that this is OK behavior, because it is far from OK. Remember if you sleep with your partner's sister/brother then you are destroying a lifelong relationship.

Your partner's co-workers are also a given when it comes to who is off limits to cheat on your partner with. By sleeping with one of your partner's co-workers you not only damage relationships with this but you put their job in jeopardy. By sleeping with their co-worker you turn them into the laughing stock of the place they work at. In the end going to work is not going to be a pleasant experience and they will then quit their jobs. Is the final result worth it?

Friends are also off limits. I don't know how many people will try to sleep with their partner's good looking friend. This is a major betrayal on your part and the part of the friend. If you sleep with one of their friends then after awhile they will start to question all of their friendships making it hard to be friends with anyone.

As I have said cheating is wrong but the damage that is done by sleeping with any of the above type of people is even greater than if you sleep with someone your partner does not know. If you find that you have to cheat keep it to people that you partner does not know and is more than likely to never meet. If kept to people that your partner does not know, then the only relationship that you are damaging is your own.

Published by Antoinette McGowan

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  • Your partner's mother/father are off limits when it comes to cheating.
  • Your partner's brother/sister also falls into the off limits category.
  • Friends are also off limits.

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  • Nick Howes11/25/2007

    I think its fair to say anyone who shows up at a family reunion is off limits. Especially if its your own family.

  • Meredith Louise Harper8/21/2007

    I'm going to go with the mother/father ew comment. One of my friends from high school dated a boy in our grade, and once we graduated she married the boy's father! Tragic. But the guy is surprisingly comfortable with it.

  • AnnaB5/22/2007

    I know several people who have made these choices and the end result has been bad in every case.

  • AnnaB5/22/2007

    I know several people who have made these choices and the end result has been bad in every case.

  • Sophia S.4/27/2007

    mother/father....eww

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