When Dating, Are You a Jerk or a Nice Guy?

Would you consider yourself to be a jerk or a nice guy when dating women that you are interested in? Do you put yourself first or do you put the woman that you are with first? First off, women do not like to be around a self centered guy that does not listen to what she has to say or how she feels. On a date, women open up very slowly and usually get to be more relaxed with you after she has a nice meal in her belly and a drink in her. That's if she drinks at all. Now, this is the time she may or may not open up to you and to progress to the next level with you.

Women do not like pushy guys and that insist on always getting their way. Also try not to order food for your woman. Let them make those decisions themselves. And if she comes to you and says that she wants to pay half for her meal in full than let her. You may state that you" have the bill" but some women are independent and don't feel like they want to be cared or catered to by anyone. This may be because they don't want to give off the impression that they need to perform for you on a any particular night.

If a woman wants to be with you she will be with you. Talk casually and make sure interesting words are common out of your mouth, pausing from time to time as you take in what she has to say and respond accordingly. She may or may not want her hand gently caressed above the dinner table. This would be your call. Women do like a man that is confident and knows what he wants so don't act too submissive to them. Let them know that you acknowledge her beauty and her coming out with you tonight. Women love a man that can hold his own as well.

Don't be to upfront and cocky around her. Women don't like wise guys and never down her on her appearance or her choice of food for that evening. Women tend to be quite particular of their appearance and reminding her of a physical flaw will not help you either later that night. The say nice guys finish last, but I tell you that if you can mix in some confidence with the ability to portray gentlemen-like behavior in a early dating relationship, it can go a long way. Believe me on this one! So, go out there and do the best you can to find the right girl for you. Just don't be too harsh about it.

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