When Your Friends Betray You
I swear I think to this day, they were my friends for other purposes, whom kept me like a "puppet on a string". In the end, they lied to me, cheated behind my back, and yes, hurt me so deeply defy me. Though I had learned years ago from the one best friend who broke my heart horribly, one is never prepared when a friend hurts another. I even had a good friend of mine, for years, violate my trust and all rules as a friend when I discovered she had hurt me deeply by sleeping with my husband back then. ( Now an X ) To have friends disrespect another, or hurt one so deeply doesn't account for their actions when they are out for themselves.
The betrayal fo the friendship is deep not only for oneself, but i'm sure for alot of us out there. To know that some friends would deceive or disrespect another is just plain cruel. Though we know its a part of life, and we learn to deal as life comes at us fast on a daily life. I have learned friends don't come easy these days as they did when I was growing up. They will come, they will go, its a part of our lives. What I don't accept is the fact of how friends befriend me, and betray my friendship later in life. As much as all of us will be angry from our friends hurting us in life, to me walking away from that friendship is the best way to go.
Its the most powerful karma I love these days. Though i'm not getting younger, I've lost a great deal of friends over the years. Who hasn't really? Rather it may be the betrayal or just a loss of communication, noone really deserves to be hurt in this day and age. I see my daughter making friends at school, and know that she too, will go through life making new friends and losing them. She's lost a few friends in her earlier days, but not because of her own faults, or mine. For the few friends that I do have in my life these days, I love them dearly as they been with me for years and seen what i've gone through, as I have of them. I have made new friends, and do love making new friends. I pray that they too, will understand that friendship is a treasured thing these days, and that they won't become the victim of the betrayal of a friendship as the rest have.
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Post a Commentmy friend promised that he would never betray but after one thing he killed me dog and ate it and said that it wasn't him
last year, a cirle of friends i had for a decade dumped me via facebook because i had confronted a girl online with a different account. i needed to get closure and that was the only way i could do it. the girl showed my message to my groomsman and he showed it to the circle. a part of me wants them destroyed, but another part knows it's best to forgive them and trust that somebody is going to put them in their place and what goes around comes around.
i hav3 a bets friend that lives in texas far al least 18 hours away and its hard for us to maintAIN in touch like before i mean we still talk but its not the same now shes pregnant and she dosent really call me nomore since her boyfriend dont let her weve been best friends since 3rd grade and we always had each others back now im a junior at school and i feel sad,lonely cause i have friends but no one like her . the few friends i have i dont really trust them u just have to know the person really good to trust them ...and do it for ur own good..
MY TWO BEST FRIENDS LIED AND CHEATED ME BEHIND MY BACK THEY DID IT TO EVERYONE ELSE BUT I NEVER THOUGHT THEY WOULD DO IT TO ME
your boy/girlfriend/lover with friends seems to be the number one problem.
My ex dumped me in October '08. Two months after he dumped me, my former friend was caught by a good friend of mine hanging out with my ex. According to my good friend who saw her, she looked uncomfortable. When my ex left to go back to school, the friend called my cell phone almost everyday, including my home phone. She tried texting me as well but of course I was disappointed that she would do such a thing as to hang out with my ex, I told her how much he hurt me when he dumped me and she hung out with him behind my back and tried to act as if nothing was wrong! Anyways, she had tried for at least 2 months without any luck. Finally she has backed off. We share the same group of friends (well not all but most) and I know I'm going to run into her at a party. I'm not looking forward to that encounter, cause we haven't talked since then!
great story