When is it Time to Consider "Putting Down" a Dog or Other Pet?

I have owned fish, dogs, cats, African tree frogs, turtles, lizards, a gecko, birds, and even a rat (as a child; it was surprisingly friendly, too). As an experienced pet owner, I know that the question of whether to put down an animal is one of the hardest decisions you will ever make.

This article has been written in the hopes of addressing some concerns, and to provide support for those looking to come to a decision.

When it's okay to put down a pet:

-- If the pet has repeatedly bit or caused injury to yourself or others, and if the animal has become a hazard to itself and others. Of course, there is a sliding scale here: if a parrot nips you on the finger this is entirely different from a dog lunging at your daughter's face and biting her.

-- If you have an animal that can do a lot of damage, such as a dog, there is a certain point where a vicious pet becomes both a health risk and a legal liability.

-- Also, when an animal is in profound pain and can no longer function, euthanasia is to be considered. This is a decision your local veterinarian should be able to help you with. Normal aging is different from severe pain and loss of functioning. If the animal is simply tired more often, this is NOT an acceptable reason for euthanasia. (Humans get tired as they age as well -- this doesn't mean we put our older friends down!)

When it's NOT okay to put down a pet, or when more discussion is necessary:

-- If the pet has simply become a "burden" to take care of because you have a new job, or need to relocate, or are in a new relationship and your partner dislikes dogs/cats/fish/whatever else you may care for.

-- If the pet is sick due to a curable illness. See what your area veterinarian has to say: maybe a dose of antibiotics or steroids could help get your pet back to full health. In the case of dogs and some other species, they now also offer prescription antidepressants designed to combat mood problems. Consider these options.

-- If a new pet doesn't interact well with your older pet, this is not a reason to put down the older pet. Find a way to integrate the two animals, or keep them separate, and minimize interaction so they don't hurt each other.

Finally, I must add that pet euthanasia should be a family discussion -- let everyone in your family have their say before you make a decision, or there may be lingering bad feelings or painful doubts down the road. Also, consult with friends and a trained veterinarian before coming to a decision. And, this goes without saying, do not perform the euthanasia yourself -- let the vet clinic do it for you.