Who Needs Tips for Getting Their Ex Back?

Time has gone past. Maybe it's been days, months or some cases years. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. You've found that you still have deep feelings for your ex, but have no idea how to get them back. Never fear, I'll give you three of my top tips on getting your ex back. You can actually start using these tips today.

Before we go into getting your ex back. There's a few questions you need to consider as to why your ex is your ex. What went wrong? Was it just a mutual agreement or did someone on either side do something bad? What was good in your relationship? What needed some help? If these things aren't addressed, then your ex might just end up being your ex again.

Put some thought into these questions. Find room for improvement, and if you can't, make a decision if you two being together is the best thing. You both should be adding value to the other's life. One person adding value and the other person not adding is a dead give away to a failed relationship.

Ok, now that all that is out of the way, let's get your ex back!

Tip 1 - Acknowledge Why You Broke Up

Although you shouldn't harp on the past, you should reflect on what broke you and your ex up in the first place. Was it infedility on either side? Will there be a trust issue going forward?

Next, make sure you appear to your ex that you're ok with the break up. Make it seem like you can live with or without them. Don't beg, this will completely turn them off. Make sure they know they're not the only game in town.

Tip 2 - Move Slow and Steady

There's an old saying, "Slow and steady wins the race". Don't rush into anything, Make it seem like you do want them back, but at the same time you don't. When you call them, and they say they will call you back, make them do just that.

If you make a date, and they cancel, act like it's no big deal. Don't make another date until they make one first. Again, you want them back but you don't want to chase them back.

Tip 3 - Write an It's OK Letter

Write a letter to your ex explaining you understand the break up. Let them know you know why what happened did happen, and that you think you two being broke up is the best thing right now. But make sure you leave the door open for you entrance back in.

Also, try going out with them as friends. Don't try and make them jealous with another person, and don't act jealous when you see another person. Play it cool.

Use these tips in your search for getting your ex back.