"Who Stole My Queen" - Part Two

Well to pick up where we left off in part one of this look inside this brief look at a matter I find extremely frustrating. Whereas a lot of "Black Males" are falling short of the attributes or even just common courtesy towards "Black Women". And having so replaced it with a "I'm going to use her for what she is worth" philosophy. And this is not just my personal thought or opinion I am quoting. I have actually herd and even personally know men who say this. Whether it be for financial manipulation, sexual release or material gain, and all the while saying such things like. "She don't mean nothing to me", "I'm pimpin her", "I make her do anything I wont her to do", "she a stupid B**ch". Boy! You know? some people can be such a**holes and full of them selves, so allow me to do a reality check.

Men like this are insecure and immature. Sadly spending the majority of their lives thinking of ways to manipulate, connive and lie. Not just with the women they "target". Who may have insecurities of their own, which allows them to fall subject to this. But they also display these same behaviors in every area of their lives.

But why refer to the woman as stupid? Because she is willing to do almost anything in her power to assist the person she is involved with. Or should I say she is lead to believe that is involved with her? What this means fellas is, with all your trickery. You only display your childish insecurity. Just as when you where a child. We all know the routine. We want something from our parents or to go a certain place but are afraid they will say no. So before asking we devise a scheme of lies to get a yes. It's that same childish fear that won't allow you to give the women you are involved with the option of refusing you and just because she doesn't. Don't think she's stupid. Because there will come a day when you really, really need her but her will has run dry.

So let me set you brothas straight. Out side of being brought up on charges. You can't make a woman, especially a self-respecting Black Woman do anything for you she doesn't want to do!

But there is something we can practically force them to do! That's to go through life without the strength, support, guidance, protection and love of a true Black Man! Husband to her, father to their children the uncrowned King honoring her as the uncrowned Queen of their castle. A lot of men will contest the fact that they have anything to do with this. Yeah! We want to be treated like "Kings", but don't want to take on the responsibilities that come along with that position or take the necessary steps to get there.

So let me be the first to say it my brothers. A lot of us are cowards! Yeah! Thats right! cowards. Cowards with a fabricated,delusional and misguided consumption of what courage is! Contrary to what you might believe, it has nothing to do with."Gun toatin", "who you are plugged with" or how "ready to rumble" you are. It does however consist of morals, compassion, gaining of wisdom, acceptance of responsibility and to exercises and apply to every part of your life. Amongst opposition, when the consequences of your actions are not in your favor and especially in a relationship with our beautiful Black sisters! To have the courage to treat her compassion, respect and consideration. Even at the risk of her hurting you and or being criticized by your family and friends (so called).

More in part 3