Why Dating Older Women is the Better Decision

Allie Bojko
While you may have heard through the years that men have an undying desire for sleeping around with not only the most attractive women but the youngest one as well. It's that men whether their younger or older just find older women not that attractive since all they fantasize about is dating a younger women that's a perfect ten they almost never say they want a perfect woman at the age of 40. There's a lot to be said about older women that other men don't realize until they have dated one. For example, Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore are the perfect example of a younger man dating an older woman, Demi certainly isn't a spring chicken by any means, their still going on strong since they have dated for roughly five plus years. Let's get into detail a couple of examples and benefits as to why dating older women might be the better decision after all.

When talking to an older women you can connect to them in so many ways it's unbearable. She'll know what to say at all times because she's said and done it all. She can hold a conversation without having to think about what you'll think she'll say. What I mean is that she can continue your conversation without having to think it through as opposed to younger women because their not as sharp as the older ones. You'll be able to have many wonderful and meaningful conversations as opposed to a younger women because they'll probably be more concerned about how her makeup looks or how their Facebook page is way too boring and etcetera. Older women will talk about the more serious issues such as current events, life and death, the future or even philosophy, there's simply no way you could get bored with an older women as opposed to a younger one. These might all be things you should take into account when your deciding between dating younger or older women.

Older women might be a little more traditional which can certainly be a benefit for men in general. Mature women pretty much grew in an era where life wasn't so complicated as opposed to today's times. What I simply mean by the previous sentence is that they won't argue over making you dinner or let you roam the house freely as the man of the household, this is a common problem with younger women because of their laziness or lack of appreciation for their man. If this is something you find appealing or feel that this is something necessary than this could be your true calling to date older women. But be on a look out for women who share many feminist ideals, which means she'll want some control over the relationship you'll engage in with her. It might take a couple of dates for you to realize if she is indeed a feminist and whether or not she fit's your needs.

Older women have the knack of teaching you something you may or may not know already. Older women are by no means a rookie when it comes to making love if you know what I mean. As opposed to younger women, you would need to teach them many things because they aren't very experienced in the bedroom. Older women will teach many younger or older men a few things they haven't seen or done before which will only make they sexual experiences that much interesting. They grew up in an era where making love wasn't a chore but as a way to express themselves sexually as opposed to younger ones because they'll make you fight for it. It isn't very fun when you as a man needs to fight with your women in order to make love with them on a consistent basis. I also know for a fact that men like their women younger because they don't think that the women would notice them as inexperienced lovers. It also stems down to the fact that older women can hurt a man's pride when it comes to making love sexually which is why they date younger women. If you feel like a true man and that you could hold yourself up for any challenge that may arise in front of you than dating an older women may be just for you.

Published by Allie Bojko

I like to blog on various topics that may educate others in the process. I also like the fact that when i write something not only am I learning something but others are as well.  View profile

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  • Kiss!!3/10/2011

    They take what they can get and continue to screw around. NO!! I mean the younger ones for that matter, whichever gender that happens to be. Sex aside, what happens if you cant shoulder your own costs?

  • guest12/1/2010

    If it's true that Ashton Kutcher had a fling with a 21 year old woman while married to Demi Moore, then it further debunks the idea that older women have a higher sexual peak. Using Botox Injections, plastic surgeries & anti-aging creams to keep your looks as Demi Moore is rumored to have done is not a sexual peak.

  • Richard L. Meister Jr.9/8/2010

    I do not oppose men dating older women but I just heard on the radio last night that research shows couples who are nine or more years apart are more likely to get a divorce (doesn't matter which sex is the oldest). This is because desires change as a person ages. It also said there was no effect (when the couple are near the same age) on whether a woman worked outside the home or stayed home or whether the woman made more money than the man. These couples were more likely to stay married.

  • guest8/4/2010

    Added note, there are some older women who have the need to put down younger women as younger women are prettier. Older women are more likely to have sex dysfunction & besides, given that older women are usu. more masculine looking, it's better for the man to get the younger woman. Allie Bojko, what you wrote isn't understandable & you're writing to a man who has been with both age groups.

  • guest8/4/2010

    Allie Bojko, the idea that older women are in their sexual peak is a myth. As a man who has dated older women & younger women, prefer the much younger women. There's a saying that old men look like old decrepit men, but the problem is that older women often look like old men. A young man who dates a much older woman is spending his most potent years sexually with a woman who has passed her beauty peak. Younger women are just prettier. Finally, like older men, older women are more likely to have health issues & these are things that cougar sites often don't discuss.

  • dinho7/9/2010

    i need a woman in my life no matter the age, if u are interested just call or send an sms to this number +23775897785 or send an email to conradinhoojr@yahoo.co.uk i am waiting to hear from u take care

  • T. H. Pankey6/23/2010

    You missed the most important reason(s).

  • Moses5/27/2010

    I agree with most of the points made in this well written article. Age barriers really do not matter.It is probably the pressures of society that set these boundaries which is more prevalent than anything else.Better to find happiness and the heck with the norms that society places on age barriers.

  • srithasan5/26/2010

    Older women who will will be look like mothers.Hope their decision will be welcomeable.

  • Roderick Chappell4/16/2010

    I messed up and my wife is 9 years younger than me, oh well...lol

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