Why Your Husband Should Not Be Your Best Friend

We have all seen those couples, so knew and fresh in their love. They are each others best friends, soul mates forever and ever, yeah right. Not that love can't last forever it can but there does need to be boundaries set. When you become each other's best friends the outside world seems to shut out and it becomes just the two of you, you lean on each other for all support needed all others have been put on the back burner or have disappeared completely.

First things first ladies, what do you think will happen when you ask your husband (best friend) to go shopping with you. Sure at first he will go and might even enjoy it for a moment or two but after awhile it will get old and he will start to push you to hurry up, something we know we can't handle when we are getting our shopping on. He does not see a difference between those shoes you are wearing and the ones you want. Most likely he won't care and after awhile it will be more and more apparent. Unless the reason to shop is to get a gift for a mutual friend then take your girlfriends with you to shop don't torture your man.

When you are each others best friends you get to see the bad side as well, or should I say the gross side. We all know we have done it but being able to fart and burp in front of your man and just let go is not what it's cracked up to be. Sure being comfortable with each other is nice but remember once you start it will never stop. There will never be a line drawn again and if he feels like it, it will just happen at the oddest of moments. It can be an extreme turn off not just for you but for him as well. You used to be is beautiful queen now you're a belching slob, he might laugh with you but it's probably only because he does not want to cry in wonder at where his lady has gone.

Once you have become best friends all others have disappeared, this is bad. You need your friends and he needs his. Men need to hang out with other men, let them. Let's face it just like they don't understand us we don't understand them, but their friends do just as our friends understand us. If we can get out our shopping, bitching, gossiping out of the way before we head home it makes his day; just as much as him getting his grunting, belching, farting, perverted joke telling and absurd antics out of the way before he walks through that door makes our day.

Being good friends with each other is a must, he should always be your go to person and vice versa. You should just make sure there is a line drawn and he gets to be a man and enjoy himself without you once in a while and you get to be a woman and enjoy yourself with out him. This makes it easier to appreciate each others company for the long haul.