Why Do Marriages Have to End Up in Tragedy?

This article is about why marriages have to end in tragedy. I do not know from personal experience. I have a good marriage, but I sit here and wonder why so many marriages have to end in divorce over a spouse cheating on their spouse or something along the lines of that?

When you get married you take the vows you said at the alter to heart. That is why you say them in the first place. There are so many marriages now a days that are just not working out.

People do not understand why people to what they do to end marriages. In my opinion if you do not think that the person you are going to marry is the right person for you, then don't marry them. It is as simple as that.

Some people I hear of marry because their family wants then to marry that person, but in their heart they are not happy and should not marry. Everybody should marry the person they are in love with and want to spend the rest of their life with.

Do not marry for money because money cannot buy you love or happiness and do not marry for someone else because that is not what makes you happy. Do not marry to make someone else happy, marry because it makes you and your spouse happy.

Many people make the wrong decision on who they are going to marry in their first marriage. If only people took a long look at what their lives would be with the person they are going to marry to find out if they are going to be happy or miserable in the long run.

That is the trouble with marriages these days, people do not think before they act on what they are going to do.

It just bothers me that someone would get married to someone when they are so unhappy before they get married or they know it is not meant to be in the future.

Marriage is a sacred thing. It cannot just happen because you think it should or someone else thinks it should. It happens when two people are madly in love with each other and they know for a fact that it will work no matter what crosses their paths.

Take me and my husband for example. We were engaged for 8 years and just this last September we got married. I know in my heart and he knew in his that we were meant to be together. Though we have had some hard times in our lives as an engaged couple, we got through them together and are as happy as ever have been.

In my case, my grandparents did not want me marrying me husband because they thought I could do better. I did not care what they thought. I loved my husband and still do and he loves me and that is all that matters.

My grandfather tried for years to run my husband off, but my husband knew in his heart that I was the one for him and nothing could stand in the way of that.

In the end, my grandfather walked me down the aisle on my wedding day and me and my husband have been happily married for 6 months and have many many years ahead of us.

So take my advice do not marry someone just because someone wants you to. Marry them because YOU want to. You will be so much happier in the long run.