Why Men Get Bored?

It's a question that any woman asks herself. Apparently, there is a single answer related to their inability to be monogamist, an organic, hormonal, mental impossibility...If we analyze a relationship from the beginning to the end, we find that in fact there are many other reasons of boredom.

So, where are the partners wrong? Who is guilty for this situation: the man or the woman?

They are both wrong. First, the man is and will be forever a hunter. He will always want to be challenged, because when he gets to know everything about his partner and he has nothing to discover anymore, he gets bored.

There are many women among us who, after finding a stable man, starting a serious relationship, forget to be women, meaning that they start to become to pay less attention to those details that attracted their men in the past: they neglect their bodies, they enter into a boring routine, they give up feminism, becoming more and more annoying, putting on top the daily problems instead of taking care of their intimate life and mystery.

Here, women are wrong and although inside them, maybe that admit it, many will stiffen in believing that they do everything possible to keep a relationship.

My dear, remember about that older quote that says that a woman is truly a woman if she meets three conditions: she must be a good mother and housewife, a lady in society and a real mistress in the bedroom. Which of these conditions do you think that come from men and which come from women? Well, many times, women know how to be true mothers and housewives, they know how to behave in society, but they forget the last condition because the first two already consume all their energy. They don't realize that they forget what's the most important: to be women for their men.

Maybe many of you will contradict me, as you believe that these aspects are not available today, as the woman is emancipated, knowing how to keep her man close to her. She knows how to emphasize her image, her intimate life and when the relationship doesn't work anymore, she divorces and looks for someone else. Yes, it is true, but not for all women; some still have the mentality of the sacrifice for the good of the family.

In order to eliminate the risk to loose your men, you don't have to neglect your children or to forget about being ladies in society; you just have to organize your energy in order to be next to your men, as they are like some kids who we may loose if we are not careful. Some other ladies could find them in our absence.

Men are wrong also, primarily because they are selfish and because they forget to be romantic and to give you the feeling that you're the most important woman in the world. They have a limited patience and prefer to look somewhere else for what their partner doesn't offer them anymore, because their needs should be satisfied as soon as possible.

The truth is that there are men who, if they are in loved and have a successful marriage, are really happy and solve easier any possible problems that can occur.

Therefore, if we are fair with ourselves, men are also right: how much does it costs us to be women for them? Nothing or rather everything, because we just have to be who we are, we don't have to play roles, to get out of our skin or to exceed our condition. We just have to be ourselves. We forget this many times and then we ask why we are alone?

Meditate a bit and see what says the woman in you. I'm sure that she will be happy to come to the light again, more beautiful and mysterious than ever.

Be beautiful and happy, the women in you deserve it fully!