Why Men Can't Decide?

What stops them to take a decision and to act according? What scares them? What is hiding behind an undecided man?

First, one of the reasons that stops men to take a responsibility is the fear of failure; the fear of being imprisoned in a relationship from which they can not get out, their low safe confidence when it comes about building a long term relationship, scares them.

The distrust in their own powers is another factor of hesitation: "how to take care of someone when I'm not able to take care of myself?"

If you ever see a man who claims that he needs freedom and that he does not need to get married to invest in a relationship, then you should know that the fear of starting a new relationship, while leaving from the current one, is already dominating him.

Another reason of those hesitations is often the insistences of his partner or the others jokes on his account. A restless partner, who keeps her eyes every day on his pocket to see the shape of the box that contains the precious ring, a partner who suggests him to watch very romantic movies and gives him the example of her family friends who are married and happy- this kind of partner will be always avoided by men.

Every man has his time of decision. And sometimes decisions can come overnight, with much ease, but this will happen only if he will have enough freedom of thinking, if he will not be constrained by other factors.

What should a woman do while men try to decide?

In this case, a woman should mind her own business. It is easy. She must live further as she wouldn't depend on her partner's decision, she should enjoy her life and treat him with respect.

Another important rule for women is to not make too many suggestions regarding their future, this will worsen the situation. Men don't like to have anything to do with a woman who wants to get married not matter what.

The strategy lies in hands of women; it depends on how they use it in their own interest.