Why Men Cheat: A Beginner's Guide to Male Infidelity
The biological urge to mate with many different partners is stronger in men than it is in women. Of course, this biological urge can and should be controlled when a man is in a serious relationship. But if there is any doubt that it is the male's role in the world to spread his seed, you need merely look to the animal kingdom. Males mate with multiple females to ensure the survival of the species. Of course, human males do not want to impregnate every woman they meet, but simply have sexual relations with them. In other words, man has evolved. Just not completely.
Men desire excitement. You have to admit, there is not much excitement in the world for most men today. We are not hunting buffalo or spearing fish, engaging in gun battles or pirating. Most men wake up, go to work, come home, eat dinner, watch television and go to sleep. These routines can become pretty damn boring. With such few options for excitement, some men opt for the excitement of an affair. It is something safer and more enticing than hand-gliding, yet more adventurous than trying that new seafood restaurant or failing to take the garbage out for a week.
Some men simply need more attention. It is easy to take a long-term partner for granted after a while. Once the attention stops, immediately the man's eyes usually start to wander. A healthy sex life can slow the process, but often cannot completely diffuse the man's desire for attention from other women.
Sometimes cheating feels like the only way for a man to get rid of his woman. He knows if he ends the relationship himself, he will only regret it. But if he cheats, he is sure to drive her away. Infidelity is usually the one unforgivable trespass in a relationship.
Of course, men could also cheat for a combination of all those reasons. Infidelity is in his nature, he craves excitement and attention, and he wants out of the relationship.
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Post a Commentlike they said in the beginning. this is no excuse on why people cheat just trying to help people understand. I find this article very true.
Men are known to cheat more easily than women do. This could be because they have greater physical needs, or are not committed into the relationship and some do it as they need to break the relationship.
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Well...actually, this is no excuse. Isn't it that in the animal kingdom, females (like cats for example) will mate with as many males as possible in order to get the strongest seed?
If you ask me, men cheat because they CAN.
If females have been less likely to stray in the past, it's for a few reasons: Probably due to male-dominated society (In which men control women, each woman has only one man, sometimes has to share him), and the fact that since women are the ones who must carry the children, they are more likely to stick to their man because they want to keep their family together.
I have heard that unattractive women do anything in their power too show love for a good looking man. I know a woman that likes married men and to attract them she stroke their ego to the point that she lower herself bad. She has gone as far of accusing men of molesting her 71/2 year old when men realized that they only wanted what she was offering. It is a sad story because this women also had sex with her half brother and even worst she got pregnant and all for the attention that she likes. Married men is all she likes.
Couldn't agree with you more, Heather B. This is the most intelligent comment posted. Spot on.
Now why men cheat with unattractive women. My husband was having an affair with a woman that looks like something is wrong with her physically. He told me that he was giving her the mercy f...
lol no woman can ever say anything about what men think, or what men should do... how could you... tell us what is right and what is wrong... your not men and would never understand...
I love that, actually women simply want men to think like women...
unnatural , maybe your right about one thing, people shouldnt get married.. but really when you think about it romance and marriage is something women want. and well men do mostly because they dont realize that when they do , they are hers, and not even there own.
your not a person anymore, just her property.
Why men cheat
The truth is man by nature craves many women. Even if he has a beautiful fulfilling woman. This truth is cold and ugly but until you accept it you will feel you are old, ugly, and not good enough when you catch him viewing men's magazines or find out he has been unfaithful. Men have to work at it, to remain with one woman, even if he really loves her. Cold and unpleasant, but true. If you need proof start researching the differences between the way a man's mind works in comparison to the female mind. And what's funny is how women will be so cruel to each other when in competition for a man. That man (provided both females are good looking young and thin) would probably prefer the both of them in fantasy rather than one or the other anyways. (Even though he won't ever admit it to his woman) It takes a lot of energy for a man to be faithful no matter who she is. If you have a faithful man who is not involved with porn, please know you are lucky!!
Why men cheat
The truth is man by nature craves many women. Even if he has a beautiful fulfilling woman. This truth is cold and ugly but until you accept it you will feel you are old, ugly, and not good enough when you catch him viewing men's magazines or find out he has been unfaithful. Men have to work at it, to remain with one woman, even if he really loves her. Cold and unpleasant, but true. If you need proof start researching the differences between the way a man's mind works in comparison to the female mind. And what's funny is how women will be so cruel to each other when in competition for a man. That man (provided both females are good looking young and thin) would probably prefer the both of them in fantasy rather than one or the other anyways. (Even though he won't ever admit it to his woman) It takes a lot of energy for a man to be faithful no matter who she is. If you have a faithful man who is not involved with porn, please know you are lucky!!
if this all true " then why are women so stupid.why do we even need to marry? why can't we live separt from men. who needs them? I have been divorce for 3 yrs.& can hosnestly say I am more content with who I am& cannot find a logical reason to have a man in my life. Have done my own research , with elderly women who were married and now are divorced . The majority concure that if they had it to over again they would not. Even the the ones who were widowed. So tell me what reason is there to have a man in your life except to procreate. Women far removed from my generation have been taught that is acceptable behavior. But it is not