Yes, men are getting worse. It's because for many centuries men have had the luxury of getting away with behaviors that pervert their Honor in order to FALSELY SATISFY that tremendously powerful drive that all men have. One of the long term negative effects of this is that many men have completely abandoned their innate responsibility to take the Lead when in a relationship!
On the other hand, and to be frank, it is women who allow this to happen because even though every woman in the World knows that she is the one who picks the man for a relationship (and that is the way it should be) and not the other way around, it is women who allow men to believe that it is he who did the picking. And the moment a woman allows that to happen she absolutely destroys the very basis for any man-woman relationship to take root. When a relationship is started in this way, if it survives at all, it will be by complete accident and short lived. Plus, it will not ever make a woman feel truly happy, let alone fulfilled. But rather she is more likely to feel there is "something missing" that she can't quite put her finger on.
Now for the good news! Even though there's not much you can do to stop most men from getting worse, there is something you can do on an individual basis to stop your own heartache in a relationship. But first let us examine what usually happens. Starting with the next man you meet, you check him out...you like him...you want to take him home but you don't want to seem too easy. So you allow him to work at "getting you" and he ends up believing he's picked you...right? WRONG!!!! That is complete sabotage.
Instead, you must resist the urge to let him believe he's doing the picking. Now try this: before you have sex with him...before he touches your snaps, zipper, or breasts, let alone your coochee, you need to 'slap him on his ass' or pull him in close, and TELL him that you are picking him for sex. If he does not respond by showing you some sort of acceptance of this fact...then f**k him if you want to..... but! he is not a good candidate for a relationship...because he will not take the all important Lead in the relationship. And here's why. BECAUSE HIS instincts rule his behavior, and after sex, those instincts will constantly bombard him with the feeling that "You baby, are in the bag". Or in other words, that you're tagged and captured and no longer require his efforts, and he therefore MUST continue his search for "the one" woman who picks him. Relationships that start out hot & heavy, then cool off, and finally one day he just vanishes without a tangible explanation, are a perfect example of his mammal instincts working against the relationship.
To change this pattern in a man you simply need to get his instincts working for you and the relationship from the very beginning. And it is very possible to do so!
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Published by Gary James
I have a background in the social sciences. In the process of conducting research for a book, I uncovered a law of nature that reveals how several of the animal instincts we have in common with other mammals... View profile
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