Why Do Nice Guys Finish Last?

Brook Johnson
If you an absolute nice guy do you ever wonder why do I finish last? Is it because you're too nice. Hell yes it is. Do you ever wanted to change your position and finish first? Well sad to say but with ladies a little edge is required. No lady want the friend type man to be their man. They want a little tough but sensitive man. I'm not saying go from one extreme to another but balance. When you get the hang of it will become fluent in your everyday lifestyle and you'll be finish first most of the time.

First, look at your clothes. Wear your clothes don't let the clothes wear you. You might not understand what I'm mean but think about it, you could have a hundred dollar jeans on with a hundred dollar shirt on but know one would know if you just walking on it like it nothing. There isn't anything wrong with showing off sometime. Just think about when you was a kid on the first day back to school. You made sure everything was clean and iron; just right. That how you suppose to be looking at least the work hours. Accessories is good, it's not for the ladies. Get a good earring or necklace and show it. A lady like a man that could look good in clothes but just not more than her.

Next, adjust that attitude. Niceness won't even get you a proper kiss. You might get a hug but a stranger to get a hug. Like they say we're in a jungle so act like the king of the jungle not a gazelle. You'll get eaten alive. You're a lion that want that lioness so get that lioness. If you another "lion" tries to get her intercept his movement so her you want her with edge. Edge is obtain by laying the law down on her. You know sometimes that particular lady might say something you don't like but you let it slide. Quit that! You tell her "listen to me and listen good, that thing you said what real mess up right now I don't appreciate you being around me" and that's it. Don't ever walk out the room just look at her till she walks out and give a little smirk. Don't say anything to her till she apologize if she's a real woman she apologize if not she not worth the time but she'll see your edge.

You might think I'm taking this from movies but where do you think movies get it from? Real life. You watch Scar face and he got the lady. How? By determination and keeping his balls. Granted he shot a guy and after a while lost the lady to crack but that another topic. But he was determine and keep up his determination and got the lady.

Nice guy finish last it just not saying it's true. Being totally nice to some women are a lot of stress if you like them. Niceness only takes you so far. I'm not saying when you get the lady you don't show your nice side. Don't be an ass and blame me when you just mean and take it to the extreme; I'm not saying that. Nice guys play online games twenty hours a day. Being totally nice affect your life. Respect comes with fear sometimes.

Published by Brook Johnson

I'm from Brooklyn, New York. I write screen plays, poetry, and a bit of articles.  View profile

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  • Aj7/23/2007

    Thanks man, it really comes to show nice guys DO finish last

  • Smartazz7/18/2007

    Damn! Take a english class and then give advice.

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