Why You Should Not Cheat with Your Best Friend's Girlfriend

I have actually had to answer this question for myself before in my life. That time I failed a friendship and myself by cheating with his girlfriend at the time. No matter how I try and justify it I still failed. At the time we tried to blame it on their relationship, physical attraction, and we were a better match for each other. All of these were excuses nothing more.

When it comes down to it after knowing everything that I already know from past experiences the answer is No I would not steal a girlfriend from a friend. The aftermath of that time was that I lost a very close friend for awhile. I also found that once the girl cheated with me I had a doubt in my mind as to her ability to stay true to me and not cheat on me.

Once the friend and myself figured out that neither of us could trust her we reconciled our differences and became friends again. Unfortunately there will always be that mark on our friendship from what happened there. As for the girl I am not really sure what happened to her after w were both done with her. Last I heard of her she had a son by someone else and was living up north somewhere.

So If this situation ever comes up again I can honestly say that I would never let myself get in this position again. I would not cheat with the girlfriend of a friend and would more than likely tell the friend if something like that happened again. I'm not sure if that is the best option either but I would feel if I were in the same position I would want to know if my Girlfriend was trying to cheat on me or was considering cheating somewhere else.

So from experience I have learned that stealing my friends girlfriend is an incredibly bad idea. It causes you to have the potential to lose a close friend and you end up not trusting the girl that cheated on your friend. I just couldn't see going through a relationship with someone after that always wondering if she was going to cheat on me also.

I would not suggest it for anyone else also unless you are really not that interested in keeping your friendships with your friends. You should always try and distance yourself from a situation like that as it just causes to much pain. You can be called a home wrecker or more but what it finally boils down to in the end is that you are cheating with your best friend's girlfriend.