Why You Should Be Positive

Keith Dailey
Being positive is an overall advantage to you, as well as others around you. If you have ever been around someone who is always negative, you know that they generally are not pleasant individuals to be around.

The power of thought can affect many aspects of your life. Your personal attitude is greatly affected by your thoughts, and your attitude can lend to your mood and other aspects. Not only does that attitude have an impact on you personally, but it also can transfer to other individuals.

Thinking positive thoughts leads to positive emotions and attitudes. This includes not only yours, but others' as well. Positive thinking can energize and satisfy, where negative thoughts tend to drain an individual's energy and cause dissatisfaction. Negativity lends more to gloom and doom. Either way you look at it, whether positive or negative, your attitudes and emotions are affected accordingly and transfer to others.

People tend to gravitate more toward positive individuals and away from negative ones. Most people are aware that attitude and mood can transfer, and therefore they would rather have a positive transference.

The way in which an individual perceives the world can be a definition of attitude. A negative attitude breeds pessimism about everything and everyone in that individual's world. Meanwhile the positive attitude leads to optimism and more of a focus on positive emotions, activities and overall world view.

A tendency toward positive thoughts or optimism contributes to a better health condition. In having more of a positive attitude, an individual is better able to handle stressful situations, lending to a healthier handling of such. Those individuals than lean more toward negative attitude or pessimism tend to worry more and cause themselves increased stress, thus lending to poorer health.

Personal satisfactions, self-assurance, confidence and overall positive self-image are at the forefront of having a positive attitude. This allows those around you to have the same feelings. Of course if you are unsure, unsatisfied with yourself and lack confidence, then your self-image is negative and will make your overall attitude negative. This also will transfer to the attitudes and feelings of others in a negative way.

Across many avenues, from the media to parenting, it is found that negativity is more readily pronounced than positive thoughts. For example, parents only offer their children one optimistic thought per every fourteen overall thoughts. Likewise we see that the media more readily focuses on the negative. However, if there is an effort made toward focusing on the positive, it becomes more of a habit to be positive and get rid of the negative.

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