Why Should You Say Goodbye to Your New Boyfriend Before it is Too Late

You call your feelings for your new boyfriend "love at first sight" because they are so deep. You believe they are real based upon the fact that you both act like you knew each other for more than twenty years. But all of the sudden you have some unanswered questions. You are asking yourself if he were the man you have always dreamed of or the Prince Charming you want to father your children. How can you be sure he will be the joy of your life or the lovely sun of your heaven? Those are difficult questions to be answered, for you may be dealing with a dishonest and perfect stranger. However, you will be able to protect yourself against setbacks, deception, humiliation, and remorse if you take the following red flags into consideration.

1. Your new partner happens to be a liar

Someone who pretends to love you must be truthful. Therefore, your boyfriend should not lie to you about his identity or any other important matter regarding your romantic involvement even though telling the truth may affect your relationship. Failure to do so may force you to be reluctant to ever trust him again.

2. Your boyfriend has always something to hide

Be aware if your boyfriend constantly prevents you from having any form of contact with his friends, parents, or colleagues. There might be something wrong he is trying to hide from you.

3. Your partner's cell phone remains on silent mode

Three main reasons may force someone to put his or her cell phone on silent mode: work policy, fatigue, and others who will be suffering when the telephone is ringing. Turning off his cell phone or always putting it on silent mode just because he is in your presence is simply inappropriate.

4. Nothing, but sex only baby

"Sex" should not be the priority of two friends who just met. Instead, they need to know each other by means of effective communication. They must remember that "having sex" should be one of the key points at the honeymoon's agenda. In case your new partner wants to change the rules you need to wake up, and speak up, for you might be dealing with a lover of pleasure.

5. Your relationship is a classified matter

Your new partner has instructed you to consider your relationship as a private matter. As a result, no one else should know about it, otherwise everything will be messed up. Do not cooperate unless your boyfriend has a reasonable justification to keep your mouth shut.