Why Sex is Important to Men

"All men want is sex!" This phrase is repeated ad nauseum by every culture, every type of woman, and in every situation. The truth is, men want more than just sex, but sex is really important to them! Why is this the case?

Men use sex as a bonding mechanism. To men, sexual intercourse is something intimate, deep and personal. Most men certainly don't start out in life "looking for some ass." Society has had an influence on men concerning how to treat women, and has certainly influenced how women allow themselves to be treated.

Most men have an inherent need to be their own ruler, rule their kingdom, and have some control over their life. However, this is constantly being undermined by a society which feels that men have been the "oppressors" for years, and must now take a backseat. One of the ways that modern men are able to regain partial control over their kingdoms is to treat their women like "hoes." So, you see that most real men are not actually, consciously intent on whoring themselves around or using women, but they are being deprived of their God-given kingdoms, and they'll do a lot to get that back.

One of the most important things to remember is that men don't think of using sex as a control mechanism until all control is taken away from them, whether this occurs in the teen years or in early adulthood. In their minds, ideally, they have a loving woman, their property looks nice and is well taken care of, and they provide for their family. Men do not require a lot, and they are quite satisfied with the basics. Occasionally, women project their own, more dramatic personalities onto men, and feel that they have a hidden agenda. This, however, is not the case. Men do not sit for hours, scheming up the ultimate vengeance on someone. If they fight back on some emotional issue, it tends to be immediate passion, rather than planned conniving.

Men really want to have a close, trusting bond with their women. Do not allow the prevalence of cheapening sex in today's society to rob you of your wonderful relationship with your man. Keep it just between you and him, and for goodness' sake, don't gossip about things with the girls unless you are bragging about him.