Why Some Guys Prefer that a Woman Makes the First Move

A lot of guys would love it if a woman chased them instead of the other way around. This may be due to various reasons. Let's face it, one reason is that a lot of guys simply don't have the courage to approach a woman as in their minds the woman will not be interested in them. It's that fear of being rejected that will hurt the ego of a guy. You have to realize that not all women you are attracted to will also be attracted to you. This is a fact of life. Life is a challenge and you must rise up to it. You must learn not to take rejections personally as the woman who rejects you doesn't know you.

Unfortunately for the male species, most women prefer the guy to make the first approach. They prefer men who have the confidence and the courage to approach them. After all, it's been this way for centuries.However, these days, some women do approach guys that they are attracted to. To increase your chances of being approached by a woman, consider the following options:

1. Try to borrow a nephew or niece and go to the shops or outdoor markets without a female friend as most women prefer guys who like children. Their maternal instincts will kick in because when they see you with a child, they will see you as a potential father figure for their current or future children should.

2. Take your dog for a walk. Again most women like pets and it's a good way to strike up a conversation. You will be seen as an animal lover which to them makes you a lovable and gentle person.

3. Work in a social setting where there are a lot of eligible ladies such as at a bar or restaurant. Usually under intoxication, a woman may approach you.

4. Go to dance classes to learn to be a good dancer. For some reason most women like to dance and they prefer a partner who hasn't got two left feet. It may be a ballroom dance school where you can team up with a potential partner.

5. Join online dating sites and post a flattering picture of yourself. There is a great chance if a woman likes your photo that she will approach you first. You can also be the one to make the first move as it is easier to be rejected online that face to face.

Although the above tips are helpful, you should start to change your mindset to stop fearing rejection as at the end of the day, a 'no' will not kill you. It's preferable to know that at least you have tried and you won't die wondering what could have been. At the end of the day, isn't it better to approach a woman you are attracted to rather than being approached by a woman you have no attraction to? Once you take that fear factor away from your mind, you will become more confident in approaching a woman you like and you feel better for it.