Why We Celebrate Memorial Day

It Isn't Just About Barbecues and Three-day Weekends

Scott Kessman
As the weather gradually grows warmer and another Memorial Day swiftly approaches, thoughts of barbecues and picnics begin to surface in our minds. Many of us look forward with anticipation to the three-day weekend, taking advantage of the extra day off to do some traveling, or simply to catch up on some much needed relaxation.

But more often than not, we forget what Memorial Day really means, and very rarely do we ask ourselves why we celebrate Memorial Day. Of course, those of you who have served in the armed forces or have family members who have done so are well aware of the history and meaning of Memorial Day, some of you painfully so.

The media often makes a small comment in regards to why we celebrate Memorial Day, and newspapers often publish a small article, but otherwise the general consensus is that Memorial Day is a time for warm-weather fun and happy celebrations.

The purpose of this article is not to dampen anyone's spirits, or to preach about war and its casualties. It is not intended to ruin anyone's Memorial Day weekend plans or parties. It is simply to remind those of you who need reminding that Memorial Day was originally not so much a celebration as it was a day of solemnity, a day of respect and remembrance for those who have served their country and have died doing so.

Regardless of whether you support the current war or not, or even the previous wars throughout history, the fact remains that hundreds of thousands of soldiers went to war for the United States of America. They fought hard and they fought well, and they fought for reasons that may or may not have been righteous. But they pledged themselves to the cause, because they believed in the United States, and they believed in themselves as a soldier.

And they died for it.

Memorial Day was first established in 1868 in order to honor the soldiers who had fallen during the Civil War. It was initially only recognized by first New York and then the remainder of the northern states, and wasn't followed by the south until after World War I.

While many states at that time typically had their own specific days of remembrance, (and some still do), Memorial Day became has become the national standard. Unfortunately, over the years, many Americans, especially those who have been untouched by war and the strife it causes, have forgotten what Memorial Day truly means, despite the fact that "memorial" being the very title of the holiday is a pretty significant clue.

In 2000, a National Moment of Remembrance was passed, asking all Americans to take a moment of silence to honor and respect the dead soldiers who have fought bravely for our country. Americans are asked to take just a few minutes of their day, regardless of what they may be doing, and simply observe a moment of silence, or say a prayer.

Thousands of Americans gave their lives for us and our country, surely we can spare a few minutes of our day once a year?

There is a proposition to restore Memorial Day back to its traditional day of May 30th of each year, rather than the last Monday of each May. The purpose of such a resolution is to help put the focus back onto the real reason why we celebrate Memorial Day, rather than viewing the holiday as just another three-day weekend.

For more information on the history of Memorial Day and to find out more about the proposition, please visit and http://www.usmemorialday.org

Published by Scott Kessman

Scott Michael Kessman is a freelance writer and also the author of The Tales of Tanglewood YA fantasy series. The novels meld together Irish & Celtic mythology with modern-day folklore, and are enjoyed by al...   View profile

  • Memorial Day was first established in 1868 in order to honor soldiers who died during the Civil War.
  • In 2000, a National Moment of Remembrance was passed.
  • There is a proposition to restore Memorial Day back to its traditional day of May 30th.

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  • ryan 6/1/2010

    i pray for the men and woman who died

  • Emily 5/29/2010

    RIP to all those who fought for their country and never made it home. (K.I.A and M.I.A)

  • Paula Wilson 5/20/2010

    I love this piece. I have written a poem about Memorial Day entitled "Remembering". I just submitted it today. Please check it out once it is published. Thanks.

  • anne 5/1/2010

    I LOVE THIS ARTICLE

  • Coral Levang 5/24/2009

    Thank you for your article here about why we celebrate. I am a veteran. I have often lamented about how those of us who spent many years, but did not retire, are not thanked. (My very first submission here was about that.) Thank you for sharing the TRUE meaning of what this day means.

  • Ann 5/22/2009

    This is excellent. I was raised with a very patriotic family. My Dad served in WW11, my Brother in Vietman, and my Grandmothers brothers were in WW1. We need to teach this to our children, mine they know since my brother is buried in a national cemetary ( he did not die in war) he retired from the Air Force. It's the next generation that may not be taught this because of all of things that cannot be taught in school anymore. Our Country NEEDS us behind our soldiers now more than ever. Thank You

  • Chris Schultz 5/26/2008

    Well done. Thanks.

  • Mark Stuart ELLISON 5/26/2008

    In terms of public misconception, Memorial Day is very much like July 4: many people associate it with barbecues and fireworks rather than celebration of our hard-fought independence.

  • Mark Stuart ELLISON 5/26/2008

    Excellent, succinct article, Scott. I've been thinking a lot about my dad this Memorial Day. He was supposed to be an aerial gunner but, due to a twist of fate, wound up being a radio man on the ground, a much safer job although he was on the front lines during the Battle of the Bulge. For his entire adult life, my father was plagued by guilt over not being in combat. But if he hadn't survived the war, I wouldn't be writing this...

  • Stupid 5/26/2008

    I think this is a great article!!!

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