Why Do Women Change After Marriage?

It seems like women change after marriage. Their attitudes and the perceptions that they have in life seem to change for the worst or to a path that sometimes men cannot seem to follow. So why do women do this, you ask me? If it is already hard to understand women, than what makes them think that we can follow their unrecognizable path?

We as men, do not and perhaps may not ever understand this? So the question is. Do you stay with your spouse just because of the kids or do you stay with her because you think that nobody else can put up with you and your exceptional habits. Interesting questions, no? So then we are lead to the conclusion that once we are married it is an inevitable concept to foresee the ultimate change in attitude and mood that your spouse will attempt to achieve in your life. A tricky situation for a road most men do not want to ride. Then again the perception of solitude in ones life may weight out any differences you may have with your spouse.

So here it is then. You either stay with your spouse or stay alone. Sure, you may be able to find another woman out there and maybe perhaps quite younger but seriously, aren't they mostly all the same. It is the measure of a man's toleration and compassion to fully accept a life's path with a woman fully. It is not the easiest thing to do but if you can learn to tolerate each other and forgive better, than it may not be so bad in the end. I have noticed the simplest things change in a marriage like the concern for the cleanliness of the house, the expectations of the husband to do more at home and sexual satisfactions as well. When men come home from work their mind set is not the same as that of a women, so women will never understand what we are really thinking or experiencing in our daily lives.

Men are problem solvers and we like to fix things if a problem presents itself. So if a problem does present itself we provide a reasonable solution to it very quickly. Women do not understand this concept and the quicker we provide an immediate solution the harsher the criticism is received by her. So what do you do? Just press on, listen and continue what you were doing previously. Do not enter into an unforgivable cat fight that you know you will not win. You will thank me later!

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