Why Do Women Cheat?

Dominique Williams
After my article "Why Do Men Cheat" was published, I began getting requests for a counter article on why women cheat. I have decided to fulfill these wishes with this article dedicated specifically to why women cheat.

Now, women and men think differently. We definitely all know that. Women tend to be more emotionally motivated than men when they cheat. Men are more physically motivated. Women are extremely emotional (which is not a bad thing) and sometimes the emotions can take a heavy toll on the mind. We will now take a look at some of these aspects and theories on why women cheat.

Some women cheat due to loneliness

Not getting the attention that some women crave can be an excuse that they use to cheat. Whether the guy is away on business trips or simply working hard, women who fit into this category are so worried about their own personal emotions that they do not care about their spouse's emotions. Being lonely can be depressing, but it should not be a reason for cheating. There are other things out there to do to cure loneliness and cheating should definitely not be one of them.

Some women want revenge

Unfortunately, instead of finding a man who is better, some women go out and do the same thing that her spouse has done to her. In some situations, the woman will get into a new relationship and carry all of that baggage with her. When this is done, some women seek out revenge for all men because of an incident that has happened in the past. Also, some feel that if a man can do it then they can too.

Some women cheat because they are "gold diggers"

Women in this category typically jump from one man to the next, constantly looking for a man who has money. If the man goes broke, they look for another "rich affair" and will continue with this cycle until guilt hits or some sense suddenly pops up in their heads (which is highly unlikely). These are the type of women to stay far away from.

Some women want excitement

When the relationship has gone "stale", as women in this category would say, some actively search for a new fling. They do not want to break up with the guy because they know that it would really hurt him. Instead, they decide to go out and look for brand new adventures.

There are probably countless other theories on why women cheat. I am sure that you will find emotions being the foundation of these actions. If you have a cheating girlfriend or wife, please leave the relationship NOW. There is no reason to suffer through pain and do things for a woman who does not appreciate you. You can and you will find someone who will value you and never do any wrong unto you.

Published by Dominique Williams

Dominique Williams is a college student majoring in English with a concentration in Writing at Clayton State University. Despite her obvious love for writing, she has a passion for music, reading, and drawin...  View profile

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  • SM2/3/2012

    With me it would be due to the loneliness. My man use to treat me as though I was the last woman on earth, he made me feel special. Oh hes over that!! I am lucky if I see him 3 times a month now. If someone came along that I liked, I would cheat for attention.

  • jonathan12/10/2010

    Thank you for the last paragraph of your article .I thought that I needed to go back because she felt guilty and would never do it again. But she did and i deserve better than that. Thank you for confirming that.

  • AJ WOODSON10/14/2010

    Great article and it is really great to hear read this from a females perspective, I have read it from a mans perspective quite frequently!

  • Malina Debrie3/26/2010

    I agree. Great article. Most women I know personally who have cheated have done it because they wanted 'revenge'. then some cheated because they had a need to be appreciated.

  • Kent Tompkins2/19/2010

    Domo I love your article. I've been cheated on and I don't understand why. I never did anything to the person to cause them to do anything wrong to me. Anything she wanted I got, anytime she called I was there, If she was hungry I'd feed her, Thirsty I'd get her a glass of water, emotional support I was there, Physical needs I was there, Everything you could think of. What category did I fall in at that time? Maybe you should write an article on that because I need an answer. :) Thanks Domo.

    - Kent

  • Michele Starkey2/18/2010

    Been cheated on and know firsthand how it feels - I'll never do it to anyone. Cheers.

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